hexagram 15 to 22

[pizzabec]

Hello!
Longtime lurker here.
Must say, this site is absolutely amazing.
Totally in awe of this community and the wealth of info on the Iching.
I have been practicing astrology for 30 yrs
As a hobby so the Iching is new to me.
I have a little question in regards to the reading I've cast.
My question was
What would be the consequences of me telling x how
I feel and then dumping him as a client?
Cant for the life of me break through the meaning
Of this reading as I think I am being too subjective.
I'm embarrassed to say I have developed inappropriate feelings
For a client of mine and I'm fearful of the consequences
Because he knows some of my other clients.
:bag:
Thank you for whatever insight anyone may have,
I am eternally grateful for just being able to
Post and explain my situation out into the universe.

 

[pizzabec]

Oops, so that's hex 15.1.6 to 22 ��

 

[radiofreewill]

Hi pizzabec,

Welcome to Clarity!

"What would be the consequences of me telling x how I feel and then dumping him as a client?"
15.1.6 to 22 ~ It's the right 'solution' for showing how you truly feel.

If you take away changing lines 1 and 6, then what you have left is the stable core of the inner situation, called the Central Nuclear Tetragram, lines 2-5, which are conceived of as over-lapping Trigrams (lines 3-4-5 on top of lines 2-3-4.)

In the case of your toss, the Central Nuclear Tetragram for Hex 15, Modesty, expands out to Nuclear Hexagram 40 ~ the Solution...

...on it's way to resulting Hex 22, Beauty.

Therefore, if you do tell him how you feel, and release him as a client, then he will be free to see your true inner beauty.

From Liu Ming's 'Changing Zhouyi':

15 - Qian - Modesty

Image:

Qian is the power of true modesty. Modesty applied to time is patience. Together, modesty and patience are unsurpassable. Qian is like mountain at the center of the Earth. It is modest but confident...

Auspices:

With true modesty anything can be accomplished. In modest steps a great journey can be accomplished. Even when strong action needs to be taken, do not abandon modesty.

Good for marriage, moving house, taking exams, starting school, and starting a new job.

Bad for distant travel and extravagance.

Comment:

The modesty and humility of Qian does not imply passivity. This brand of authentic humility is certainly not a path to victimization or martyrdom. Qian tells us that the persevering application of modesty is an antidote to pride and the key to success in all things. Qian is a natural selfless force arising from a pure heart. It is the opposite of aggression, which is the selfish struggle that rises from a corrupt heart...

In an inner application, it suggest that the force of discipline may be needed to maintain the pure heart that expresses true modesty. The greater one's fame and accomplishments the greater the need for the disciplined cultivation of modesty through self-reflection.

Line 1 ~ Modest and humble. Crossing the great river. Auspicious

Sincere modesty and humility bring success. Going forward slowly is successful, despite difficulty. Modesty succeeds despite the enormity of the project (great river).

Line 6 ~ Modesty is widely known. Deploy troops. Subjugate the City and the State.

Your modesty is trusted and people support your cause. You succeed in routing out corruption and expanding your influence. Revolution and reform are easy when corruption has already weakened the "powers that be."

22 ~ Bi ~ Ornament

Image:

...True beauty is, in fact, an articulate expression of inner value.​

I hope this helps!

Good luck with it and All Best!

 

[pizzabec]

Thank you so much radiofreewill.
I know it's the right thing to do.
To give deeper perspective,
both him and I are married to someone else,
And not only can i not make a rational decision
Around him but it's got wrongsauce all over it.
I need to reevaluate my marriage and figure out how
I actually fell for another person.
Thank you again!!

 

[ZeroPoint]

Hi, pizzabec,

I too practice astrology and am relatively new to Yi. And I, too, appreciate being able to explain my own situations to the Universe.

You used a term that rang like a bell: "wrongsauce."

Given the consequences to your business, the other people involved, and the difference you all make to the Universe, and to respect the feelings yourself, would it benefit you to hit "pause" for a little longer, and cast again with these considerations in mind?

Telling him how you feel and then dumping him seems harsh. Referring him to another astrologer (not me) because you can't help him further makes more immediate sense.

I'd like to cast on this question, and get back to this thread...

 

[pizzabec]

Great point ZeroPoint! (I'm his accountant btw)
I was going to do just that! Hit the pause button because
Of the interpretation on hex 15 of
"one shall not provoke with initiatives".
I'm away on vacation for a month and I was going to confront the
Situation when I got back so that I do not act
On impulse.
I cannot make a rational decision in his presence.
My Pluto conjunct venus transit in the 7th house does not help.
Neither does his Pluto conjunct venus aspect
From birth.
I will consult the Iching again when I get back
And if I still feel the same way and I will proceed.
I have bookmarked this thread for the purpose of
Continuity and to keep you posted!
Thank you! I'm eternally grateful!

 

[liquidity]

Hello!
Longtime lurker here.
Must say, this site is absolutely amazing.
Totally in awe of this community and the wealth of info on the Iching.
I have been practicing astrology for 30 yrs
As a hobby so the Iching is new to me.
I have a little question in regards to the reading I've cast.
My question was
What would be the consequences of me telling x how
I feel and then dumping him as a client?
Cant for the life of me break through the meaning
Of this reading as I think I am being too subjective.
I'm embarrassed to say I have developed inappropriate feelings
For a client of mine and I'm fearful of the consequences
Because he knows some of my other clients.
:bag:
Thank you for whatever insight anyone may have,
I am eternally grateful for just being able to
Post and explain my situation out into the universe.

It means good fortune if you can communicate all this in a very low-key, subtle, sensitive way (.1), not sort of vomiting your feelings out, and if you put any blame for this situation on yourself (.6). This is what it means to do it elegantly, tactfully, and gracefully (22).