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I would feel the energy would not be right when I would be in a relationship as if an invisible force was interfering in my destiny. !
Hexagram 18 is an image of stale air, trapped against the mountain. The idea is not only that something is spoiling, but it goes into how it was spoiled and how to breathe fresh air into it, through understanding. Very often by understanding yourself better. But is it a curse, evil, black magic etc? No, it is not. The idea is to break up the stagnation, not to dwell on it.
hey cornucopia,
not sure how much you're aware of the symbolisms used for trigrams but, according to one way of reading them, the lower trigram is taken as what happens within (the inner reality of the querent/situation) and the upper one as what happens outside (the outer form as is manifested) . . Lately I"ve taken to reading hexagrams with mountain on top as describing something (self-)contained. Wind, on the other hand, may take a number of different meanings, some of the 'darker' ones including suspicions, doubts, indecision and so on so forth . .
Thanks Meng this is how I see hexagram 18 unless it has to do with repairs I am still investigating the family curse part as well.
I'm curious what you'll find. I hope you'll share.
When I ask how to get rid of the negative evil/curse if I have it that spoils my relationships and doesn't allow me to get married I get hexagram 59! Which I take as meaning go to church immediately and listen to liturgies!!!
Today I asked will I spend the rest of life without a husband?
Hexagram 7 lines 2, 4 and 6 changed into hexagram 35
A post-it note i have stick to h18 .
Hi Anemos where is the post it note??? Don't know where to look.
I wonder, does your reference include "I am a jealous God. I punish the sons, grandsons, and great-grandsons for the sin of the fathers who reject me," from Deuteronomy 5:9?
Yes this is the one I mean. My old man has turned his back to God and fears death. He is totally disconnected.
If so, or if it's relevant to your search, I've found nothing in the Yijing that is comparable, other than the metaphor of being "spoiled by the father", tough love gone too far perhaps. I like Bradford's reference to that as being "father's fixations". Those fixations include a father's own inadequacies, and the son or daughter not meeting the father's approval, to make up for it. Even if he's died many years ago, those ghosts (ala Karcher) can haunt some all the rest of their life, unless equally strong action is taken to avert that.
I'm a successful beautiful educated woman - the whole package. I've never had problems meeting and dating men but nothing ever stuck something always went wrong without me doing anything. I would feel the energy would not be right when I would be in a relationship as if an invisible force was interfering in my destiny. I've had enough of it
A post-it note i have stick to h18 .
Hi Anemos where is the post it note??? Don't know where to look.
I meant that quote in the other post , cornucopia , that sometimes what appears as fate is a human's doing, what also Wilhelm's say. H18 has to do with parental influences and some of them are so subtle that are not easy to be recognized neither the way they control us . and even when we do its still needs effort to change them and become like the one in 18.6. They are powerful bonds
I really like your 59 reading , makes lots of sense if your 18 is about parental influences and the ways sometimes tie children
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