hexagram 1uc

[nAstWr]

I have received hex 1 uc twice.
My first question was: Will we be together with my ex?
and...: What should I do with our relationship?

I was searching on the forum about hex 1 uc. Does it mean an entirely new start in my life and the past belongs to past? Or does it mean a new start together?

 

[nAstWr]

I tend to believe that hex 1 uc means a new start in my life.
So I asked: Is it impossible to be together again?
hexagram 21 changing lines 2 and 3 to hexagram 14
I really don't know how to interpret this. Punishment to Possession in Great Measure.
I noticed that the lines of 21 show a tender meat and an old dried meat and the picture of hex 14 shows a man, a hand and a piece of meat to emphasize possessing

Hexagram 14
DÀ: great, big, tall, large, much, very, extremely, eldest, senior, an adult, to make large.
YOU3: To possess, to have, to exist, there is, to acquire, to get, again.
(http://www.yijing.nl/i_ching/hex_1-16/hex_e_14.htm)..

Does 14 show that we will have a relationship again because of 'possess' and 'again'?