hexagram 26 and divorce

[lydiaeverst]

I have being lurking behind the scene reading hexagrams interpretations from experts and novices as well, I learned so much from you and Hilary, Thank you.
My marriage is on the brink of collapse or may be it already did collapse. I would like to fie for divorce, since it is the only way to put the past behind me and move on with my life. My husband on the other hand, who already left the home does not want divorce. I pushed for an amiable divorce but then he said if you have to file then file for a legal separation. I know he cannot call the shots after him leaving us but I have kids who are observing everything I do and say to their father.
Today I decided to cast a hexagram and share my reading with you all.
I asked the I ching :" why was I asked to file for a legal separation rather than a divorce? I got hexagram 26 unchaging. Recharging power.
does this hexagram mean that I am exhausted? what does the yi is telling me about my question. I do appreciate your insights on this reading.:bows:

 

[icastes]

26 gives many obstacles and problems, but promises eventually success. You ought to file for divorce, as in most states the separation agreement is a contract that accompanies the divorce. 26 says it will time-consuming and a pain, but it also promises a victory. By the way, 26 is known as the Taming Power of the Great, as well as Great Accumulation and even Big Cattle. In all cases, the point is that you must act now and go beyond the familiar and habitual.

 

[lydiaeverst]

Thank you.
I understand your answer but my question was why he asked for that option.

 

[willowfox]

Today I decided to cast a hexagram and share my reading with you all.
I asked the I ching :" why was I asked to file for a legal separation rather than a divorce? I got hexagram 26 unchanging.

In a divorce he would need to show all his "hidden" assets, but in a legal separation he can still keep certain things secret. As this hex suggests that he does have "things" that he wants to hide from you and the law.

 

[lydiaeverst]

so the rational for him is to hide assets from me. That is not a cool idea at all. I will go the lawyer and seek out advice on this issue. Thank you