Hexagram 27 re: relationship

[vikk]

Hi everybody!

Just wanted to see if you could share your experience with 27 unchanging or with changing lines in your relationships questions. There are threads on 27. I find them to be more general. But how your cast with 27 plaid out when you were seeking relationship advice.
Thank you!
Vikk

 

[blue_angel]

Hi,

For me it meant I needed to take a good look at whether or not the relationship was actually nourishing for me. And... If the nourishment was balanced or not. In my case, it wasn't very nourishing at all. Maybe 20% to 80% sadly, and I eventually chose to leave that relationship behind, having practically starved to death first, and feeling pretty weak upon leaving. (Figuratively speaking) and (literally speaking) I have received 27 when I was very hungry and needed to eat. Lol I felt like I was being yelled at "Eat woman! You can't accomplish much of anything on an empty stomach!"

 

[vikk]

Hi Blue Angel!
Thank you for your insight!
So do you still look if the relationship nourishes you even though you are asking about other person?
So if I ask " what are his feelings for me?" and cast 27, I still have to look how this relationship nourishes ME.
And also, I once saw that there are hexagrams which so to speak favorable for the relationship. Is 27 one of them?
Thank you!
Vikk

 

[blue_angel]

Yes I feel in this case you are asked to pay attention to how he nourishes you and also what gives him nourishment. I must have written it too many times but a good book to read is "The 5 languages of love" by Gary Chapman. The book helps give guidance on what your "love language" is. What actions others do for you that give you a feeling of nourishment or love. And what love language your partner has. Its often different. But using this guidance together, if both are willing, can help in nourishing each other.


I don't feel it answered your question and instead directed you to where your focus needs to be. Or perhaps by simply reflecting how he truly nourishes you, you can see for yourself how he feels about you.

 

[blue_angel]

I do not know if 27 is a "good" relationship reading to get or not. But I would say its not bad...