Hexagram 31 uc

[nAstWr]

I feel so lonely and disappointed after the end of my last relationship. The thing is I feel that I will stay alone forever after that. I know I shouldn't think this way.

Will I stay alone forever? 31 uc
I am not sure. 'To take a maiden to wife brings good fortune'
Perhaps I will have a new relationship. I feel so hopeless though.

And one more question to the yi: Will the ideal partner for me come into my life? Hexagram 23 changing line 1 and 6 to 24. I have no idea. I don't like hexagram 23. In fact it scares me and 24 shows return. I don't understand.

 

[butterfly spider]

Off the top of my head...
31UC for relationships indicates a cycle of events that recurs - you fall in love, break up, fall in love.....and usually there is a pattern. You say that you feel hopeless, and that you may never meet anyone again....and yet maybe looking back, you have felt in this place before......

Hex 23 with lines 1 and 6 changing t 24, very much a return of patterns - gnawing away at a situation, going through it and returning again...almost a not learning situation.

I am thinking a great deal about hex 23 right now - I have a picture of the hexagram on my wall. It is not to be seen as something to be scared of. It is as it is - looking right at you - although perhaps you are not seeing its message clearly. I always think that when lines 1 and 6 change, there is a completion of the hexagram and hence hex 24 is important here. Returning - returning to what perhaps you need to explore - if you return to the same pattern, continue in relationships that perhaps end in a certain way, leaving you feeling hopeless, then this is what you are being shown.

I also get a feeling that when you ask about your ideal partner - you need to explore this a bit more. The notion of the ideal person, like a jigsaw piece fitting with your own = find out what this means to you.
x

 

[maggie may]

Hexagram 23

Did you see Hilary's recent blog post about H23? It speaks to your question, I think.