hexagram 32 unchanging (reading for a friend)

[diidii]

you know, we women always complicate our lives. a friend of mine has a crush on a mutual friend we have. he tossed the coins and asked: are you interested? how do you feel about her? from what little I am trying to learn, hexagram 32 has always seemed to me very ambiguous for the feelings but I cannot understand if the prognosis is favorable or not.

 

[diidii]

I know it is favorable when there is a relationship already started, but they have never had an affair so I guess it is negative (I would not want to give her an incorrect answer so I rely on you)

 

[marybluesky]

Hello;

I think it indicates the things will remain the same as now.

 

[diidii]

Hello;

I think it indicates the things will remain the same as now.

so i guess it means he's not interested right?

 

[diidii]

I read on this site (source taken from longyi) he associates hexagram 32 with the tarot card (ace of coins) which talks about opportunity, maybe the iching is telling us something more. I would love an opinion also from @Trojina @rosada @diamanda

 

[marybluesky]

so i guess it means he's not interested right?

I don't know, but the dynamics of relationship aren't going to change.

It's only my opinion. Maybe others have different views?

 

[diamanda]

Hi diidii, I really don't understand the question and who is who.

a friend of mine has a crush on a mutual friend we have. he tossed the coins and asked: are you interested? how do you feel about her?

So your friend is a man, and he asked the i ching if that woman is interested in him? Then he asked another question, at the same time, about how he himself feels about her..?

 

[diidii]

Hi diidii, I really don't understand the question and who is who.

So your friend is a man, and he asked the i ching if that woman is interested in him? Then he asked another question, at the same time, about how he himself feels about her..?

forgive my poor English. my female friend is in love with a male friend of ours. launched asking iching if he was interested in her and if he felt anything,

 

[diamanda]

Ah I see, thanks! With 32 unchanging maybe he's already in a steady relationship.

 

[Trojina]

I know it is favorable when there is a relationship already started, but they have never had an affair so I guess it is negative (I would not want to give her an incorrect answer so I rely on you)

You can't really rely on us as we aren't you. It sounds like you don't have any resources or books to look up hexagram 32, you don't seem to have looked into the meaning and tried to apply it to friend's situation. Have you got Hilary's book or are you in wikiwing ? It will all be clearer to you when you start to try to understand and apply the answer yourself.

32uc is a very stable ongoing situation generally. I feel it's advice for her to continue with the friendship and then see where it goes. If I got 32uc about any kind of relationship I'd have some confidence it's an ongoing thing, it's not going to disappear overnight. Perhaps he views her as a stable part of the friendship group. I think she has plenty of time to get to know him more etc.

 

[diidii]

You can't really rely on us as we aren't you. It sounds like you don't have any resources or books to look up hexagram 32, you don't seem to have looked into the meaning and tried to apply it to friend's situation. Have you got Hilary's book or are you in wikiwing ? It will all be clearer to you when you start to try to understand and apply the answer yourself.

32uc is a very stable ongoing situation generally. I feel it's advice for her to continue with the friendship and then see where it goes. If I got 32uc about any kind of relationship I'd have some confidence it's an ongoing thing, it's not going to disappear overnight. Perhaps he views her as a stable part of the friendship group. I think she has plenty of time to get to know him more etc.

I study self-taught and honestly I learn more many times I can understand the answers (and in fact I don't ask the group) and others instead I need an extra suggestion

 

[moonviewer]

from what little I am trying to learn, hexagram 32 has always seemed to me very ambiguous

@Trojina it sounds like she's doing her homework like the rest of us we're all trying to learn.
32 uc I would think would mean the situation isn't gonna change soon. So if there's nothing going on between them now, that probably won't change.