Hexagram 45 with 5,6 moving leading to Hexagram 35

[quantum]

Dear All,

I am looking for a partner and had a serious of failed relationships. I reached a breaking point and had cast this iching in a very emotional state..The Iching is telling me something about what i am doing wrong and also about progress.
I dont want to take this lightly and am not able to intrepret it myself at the same time.
It would be of immense help if some of you can enlighten me on this one please.

I appreciate your concern for reading this post and thanks for the same

viky

 

[peter2610]

Vicky,
You're doing nothing wrong in your search for a relationship. It is in the nature of relationships that they can be haphazard, conflicting and confusing and sometimes rewarding and fulfilling.
Hex 45 - Gathering Together - is all about maintaining your sense of self-belief in the midst of the ups and downs of gathering together with others; the hexagram is also, in a wider sense, about keeping faith and belief in the process of the Tao, the unfolding of your life.
Line 5 is indicating that your position/approach is basically correct - you are approaching your relationships on the correct basis, you simply need to persevere and maintain a balanced sense of independence. When people are open and receptive, move closer, when they aren't receptive, simply wait for the right time.
Line 6 indicates the impatient pressures exerted by your ego. Without immediate results your ego is telling you that everything is hopeless, that you are failing or that the other person is not worth persevering with. Allowing your demanding ego to project negativity in this way simply leads to the line resultant - Hex 12 Standstill.
The overall resultant Hex 35 Progress, is urging you to simply move forward without complication, secure in your own balanced independence. That way it's a karmic certainty that fulfilling and rewarding relationships will eventually develop.
Best wishes, Peter

 

[ginnie]

I think you might have been teary eyed when you cast these lines, because that's what H45.6 usually means. But the distress was soon over, and there was no harm in it.

Line 5 moving: In general, you'll need to prove yourself to be stable in a relationship. Can people rely on you? When two people become partners, they take refuge in each others' virtues and need to be able to rely upon each other. You may have to prove yourself worthy of someone's trust and loyalty.

This reading makes sense, because you said you have had a series of failed relationships. Maybe you also need to prove to yourself that you can be a worthy partner.