Hexagram 49.1.2.5 to 32 Enduring Transformation

[MeltingPot247]

I asked Yi what kind of partner I am to X.

I don’t know what I’m like as a partner, I know how to describe myself as a mother, friend, daughter but I have no idea what kind of partner I am to this one particular person so I asked Yi to describe what I’m like to my current partner.

I received 49.1.2.5 to 32. Hilary translation


Line 1
'Bound with yellow rawhide.'

My interpretation: I’m the type of partner that tries to form a proper bond / connection ?

Line 2
'Your own day, so make radical change
And set out to bring order: good fortune, no mistake.'

My interpretation: Every day together is new - and I’m the kind of partner that seizes each new opportunity with him in my heart / actions daily.

Line 5
'Great person transforms as a tiger.
Even before the augury, there is truth and confidence.'

My interpretation: I’m always transforming within this particular partnership, and am building trust and confidence ?

Coming from the context of 32...

To be continuous and enduring?

Is Long Yi still around, I love interpretations of yours I’ve read in the past. This reading was done today 3 hrs ago Pacific Island time.

Some may not be interested in this question at all, but I appreciate any help.

One or a few of you might say something here that resonates for me, that reflects the relationship I currently have with X and would therefore make sense that I could confirm. I do sense a new change coming, not sure if it is for better or worse.

I may also need to go back to some previous posts of mine to see if I’ve updated them. I think I might have done as many as I could have.

 

[my_key]

I asked Yi what kind of partner I am to X.
I received 49.1.2.5 to 32.

The sort of partner you are is one that provides a spark of revolution within a firm and consistent approach to the relationship.
Sometimes you act independantly and you find that that can rock the boat. Sometimes you just burst into action and can't hold back because you see the benefits for you and others. You are learning to be grateful for what you have and tailoring your approach to look at the way you behave before looking towards others for the solution.

...... or maybe you are not like this at all as a partner.

Good Luck

 

[MeltingPot247]

I asked Yi what kind of partner I am to X.
I received 49.1.2.5 to 32.

The sort of partner you are is one that provides a spark of revolution within a firm and consistent approach to the relationship.
Sometimes you act independantly and you find that that can rock the boat. Sometimes you just burst into action and can't hold back because you see the benefits for you and others. You are learning to be grateful for what you have and tailoring your approach to look at the way you behave before looking towards others for the solution.

...... or maybe you are not like this at all as a partner.

Good Luck

Thank you MyKey for your response...it does make sense to me, and I do think I come across that way to myself and others. That is also how my partner comes across to me.

I like how you end your responses with “or it might not be like that at all or you might not be like that at all”.

It gives me more food for thought.

Thank you

 

[my_key]

I like how you end your responses with “or it might not be like that at all or you might not be like that at all”.

It gives me more food for thought.

Thank you

Hi MeltingPot

I'm glad you are able to make some sense of my interpretation of your reading. It is YOUR reading and so my response to your reading is not going to be the same as your response to your reading. I see what I write as a seed for further thoughts and exploration of your question and the response by you rather than a definitive 'this is how it is'.

Good Luck

 

[MeltingPot247]

Thank you again MyKey - I think I get where you’re coming from with it being my reading

I did a follow up reading as my closest family and closest friend know how I feel about this man but it has been challenging as they also know that he and I are in an open relationship.

I’ve also not only thought about it but have actually taken drastic measures in the past to distance myself from him... including moving 6 hours away at the beginning of the year - only to end up returning to our area due to the bad outcomes from what I was trying to achieve elsewhere. I left, not because I didn’t feel loved by him, but because of how strong my own love for him was and still is - plus other personal issues I had where I was living at that time that had nothing to do with him (but my ex from 11 years ago).

Our relationship suits in some ways, because we are both free to be ourselves, autonomous and independent of one another. We come together as good friends etc. I am starting to feel that because of my upbringing and background this open relationship may be all I could handle rather than a one on one fully intimate relationship. But maybe later in life this could change, especially after being with someone as good and kind to me as he is - which goes beyond the intimacy we’ve had by the way.

He’s never once said or done anything to suggest he would ever choose to permanently walk away from me, but I did suggest being friends only when I returned but that didn’t last long.

So to bring things forward to my question tonight:

Is there any point in continuing this relationship (including with intimacy) with X?

Outcome was 13.4.5 to 22

Fellowship with/from/in Grace or Beauty

Line 4: I think shows my defensiveness - he is quite guarded as well. Or potentially the boundaries refers to less intimacy?

Line 5: Shows the deep heart to heart connection we have no matter what.

I truly do feel we have an unbreakable bond.

I would be surprised if he ever decided to not see me again... but it’s obviously a two way thing, but I could never bring myself to willingly not see him again.

He reassures me about wanting to make time for us... even as I know he is going through significant battles of his own right now that are not directly connected to his personal relationships.

I too am going through some stuff, as everyone in the world is and has done since the beginning of time - but I have a wider supportive network of family/friends.

As an adult I’ve had consistently good family/friends, as a child not so much - which is why I may prefer this relationship with him over a traditional 24/7 monogamous one.

I think that’s enough information background/context for these answers.

In summary, it sounds like it is still worth it to continue with our relationship.

I wonder if that’s how the lines and hexagrams read to others.

 

[my_key]

Is there any point in continuing this relationship (including with intimacy) with X?

Outcome was 13.4.5 to 22

The point of this relationship is Seeking Harmony through Beauty. If you like, it is a vehicle for you to reflect and even to discover a new inner worth. It will allow you to put things into order and see situations and people (including yourself) from a different perspective (13).

In the short term the relationship is not likely to change from how it has been and you will have to bear this (13.4). Beyond this, however, it will help you to rise above things, take a different perspective on the rights and wrongs of your views and how you act out at times in a relationship. It may even uncover some new truths for you (13.5).

.... or it may mean nothing like this for you.

Good Luck