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Relationship - Hexagram 59.5.6>7 and hexagram 29.5>7 again

Cieloeterra

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Hello all, I would really appreciate your interpretation on two readings about the same subject as I feel not able to interpret them with objectivity. First of all I get confused about the fact if the iching is giving me answers changing the subject of my question in one, both or none of the questions and on second instance what the true message and how to correlate the two responses as the changing lines of both casts give the resulting hexagram 7.
The background of the question is that I feel in love with a real good friend of me which live far away and that I only have met for few weeks almost one year ago now. Our friendship has developed since the start as a very supporting exchange and even if physically far apart we have been talking to each other until now regularly every few days when not daily. I finally expressed him a deep sadness on having him far away but still telling him that our relationship come's before my own romantic interests and dreams and that for me is very important his happynes even when his life choises sadden me. I think he was shaken-up by my tears and words and didn't reply for almost one week, than he appeared again as I would have said nothing special and didn't even mentioned the matter. We are since then (one month) still regularly chatting.
Yesterday I asked the iching a first clarification
"is there anything I can do to make him romantically compromise with me?" And the response was: 59.5.6 resulting in hexagram 7
And a second question
"Why is him commenting nothing about my feelings nor sayng anything about his own?!? And the response was 29.5 resulting in hexagram 7 again.

Only to clarify things a little more... Our relationship as always looked like something destined to get to a romantic development but none of us has seamed able or may be sure of the opportunity or convenience of taking the step, may be because we were both profoundly affected by our previous relationships.
Thanks to whoever of you would like to help me understand the two readings and how to correlate them. Also, does it have a specific meaning the fact that in both readings one of the changing lines is line 5?!?
Starry nights and sunny days to all of you.
 
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Hello;

I'd say based on both readings your relationship has reached its highest level and there is nothing more to do; in other words don't bother to move it forward.

Good luck!
 

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Thanks for your answer Marybluesky. This really sadden me and even if willing and open to accept whatever response from the iching, your answer doesn't answer to my second cast as I'm not pushing him in any way or behaving in a different way from the previous to my confession. I only want to better understand the reading in depth as the i-ching is a friend to me and I really want to get to understand its lenguage, far above the simple translation of the ancient texts, so that for example I would really like to understand how do you built up your interpretation of my two casts step by step, starting from the interpretation of the first hexagram #59.5.6 following with the meaning of each changing line up to the final exagram. As well as what your explanation, relatively to my situation and his own, on the hexagram #29.5 changing to hex #7 again.
Thanks to you by the way and, I would really appreciate any other insight on the reading and if any of you has perhaps a different vision of the one brought by Marybluesky.
 
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May be my post will get more interesting to you if I express my own perception, thing that I didn't want to do at first because scared of influencing you all on the possible meaning of iching answers.
Starting from the first question "Can I and what can I do to foster him to romantically compromise with me?", my perception of the resulting hexagram 59.5.6>7 is that 59 is pointing all the attention to a new landscape where everything is possible but that whatever is the change I would make, it is brought to reality engaging in a deep spiritual job, a message like "organize your thoughts and guide them to not let fear and dubt stray away from your deepest desire". To me, the hexagram 7 related to my first question means to work with love and for the best of all the people concerned so that also the impossible could become possible as I create my own reality and 59.5.6>7 are a single answer where the resulting hexagram '7 is only giving more details on how to direct my creative power to influence life; "nothing is the same as in the past", "look forward for a new reality" that is definitively not meant to be different from what I dream.
With respect to the second question, that was "why he didn't comment nor is commenting anything in connection to my declaration of love, and neither claryfing to me his own feelings?" the answer the iching gave to me that was '29.5 drive me to think that it is pointing to his own fear of not knowing how to react, actually because as said in 59 it is something new he must handle with and perhaps, due to our emotional proximity, he is scared of taking position on the matter at hand because he himself is not sure of what he feels and then, less of what he should say and do with respect to me. The resulting hexagram 7 in this case make me think on the possibility that he is trying to organize his own life, willpower and/or thoughts while the life flaw keeps him busy with unfolding new matters so that he really doesn't know at this moment what kind of direction could take his own life, and even less one that could contemplates us as a couple.
Please let me know what do you think of my interpretation, I don't want to see things rosier than they are so let me know if anyone else agree with my own, even if partially.
thank you all for your help
 
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