Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Parents in the classroom?! Really? Is that legal?Perhaps you could volunteer to help out in the classroom a couple of mornings a week and see what's really going on.
Teachers and staff are complaining that he is having issues.
Hi PizzabecIt is my understanding that heck 6 is that of conflict and arguing but not sure with who or what...is it internal?
Hi Olga!Hi Pizzabec
I am no psychologist but in my times no-one had ADD and stuff like that, there was 1 child with Down syndrome in the whole school and that was it. I don't think we just started to make problematic children, I think modern society and way of living is problematic.
We were out all day playing on trees and bicycles. When you climb a tree, you learn to pay attention, otherwise you fall. Same for walking on roofs (we did that as well!) or hiding from teachers in the janitor's closet. A breath too loud and you got caught.
Nowadays 1 child out of three has problems of some kind or special needs. Most of the times the problem is just that they are indoors all day in front of screens. They should do things by hands, like baking bread, playing with sands, and running, lots of running about. And playing with other children of course.
Does your child get all of this? Does the school have a big park with trees to run? Do they make them help to lie down the table, put dishes and glasses, and then bring them back to the kitchen when they have finished? I don't know if he eats at school, but he can do that even at home. Instead of calling him for dinner when it's ready, have him prepare it with you. He can get the table ready and then help with food preparation. So he can feel more part of everything and doing things by hands helps controlling rage.
6 UN makes me think he falls into conflicts. Did this also happen in nursery school (kindergarten)? Do you have conflicts at home too or is he used to have it his own way?
My suggestion is that you spend more time with him. Often conflict is done unconsciously to attract parents' attention. He may be feeling he has not your full attention? I don't know your story, maybe you work a lot or have another younger brother that gets most of your time?
Also the teachers should be able to explain what he does. Just blaming his behaviour is not enough. They should explain if he is just angry or screams at other mates, if he is respectful of teachers and so on.
Well that's the important thingFrom what everyone has said, he is an incredibly polite and loving kid.
Sounds like an explorer!He gives his 110% on class but the moment he exits class he goes ballistic. He has stuffed erasers in heaters, flooded bathrooms cut up his uniform...you ask him a question like, how many time does 2 go into 4 and he will say "every time".
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).