Hexagram 61 Line 1, 5 changing to hexagram 4 - potential of relationship

[mtravers]

Hi all,

I asked a question about the potential of someone becoming my boyfriend (as in a relationship) in the future, and received hexagram 61 line 1 and 5, changing to hexagram 4.

To me it reads that there is a connection between us, but line 1 tells me to not have any preconceptions about the relationship between us and that we should not be secret. Line 5 to me looks positive like there is a bond and potential for something to develop. I am a little weary of line 1 though.

Appreciate any help you can give as I'm a beginner.

Thank you much!

 

[ginnie]

Line 1 moving seems to indicate that there are complications that may arise. The usual interpretation of this line is that It would be better to stay by yourself, but, on the other hand, some commentators say that they don't know what to make of this line. Line 5 moving says that you are pulled forward by confidence in what you have in mind, and it does say "no error." It does not say "good fortune," however, so I don't know. Hexagram 4 as your relating hexagram may indicate that there is something important you don't know, that is hidden from you. I'm not saying that he is hiding something from you, just that all the facts may not be apparent right now.