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My story starts out two years ago when I decided to get a card reading out of curiosity. I contacted this lady who gave me a tarot reading that now is aching my mind. She told me loads of things about myself and my future, very positive in general, but negative in terms of love life. Some of her predictions were right, the others, time will tell. I asked her about the next girls in my life and she told me that first there would be a girl with the same skin color as mine and that she would lead me to a girl with white skin color that would disappoint me. The thing is that these thoughts keep on coming up in my mind with my actual girlfriend and make me doubt (she has the same skin color as mine). They won’t allow me to love her fully. I find it ridiculous to get affected by such thoughts thinking I’m free to do what I want and that I have a special person with me (our relationship is great; we are very conscious of each other, mature in our matters, have fun together and have great sex (we seldom fight)). But the card reading keeps up popping up in my head as my “destiny” even though I consciously know it is not.

I would really like to stop giving attention to these thoughts since they are holding me down and making me feel guilty of something I haven’t done making my feelings towards my girlfriend fluctuate a lot.

So I asked Yi:
Will I ever be free from the suggestion of the card reading?
And received: Hexagram 64.3 > 50

Any thoughts upon this response?
 

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Will I ever be free from the suggestion of the card reading?
64.3 > 50


Yes, the influence will dissipate.

Line 3 (Hatcher) suggests that struggling against the influence has made it worse.

If not yet across, to go boldly has pitfalls
It is worthwhile to cross the great stream

Like a fish that sets the hook by struggling against it. You owe your girlfriend more attention, affection, and kindness to compensate for this negativity, and that will free you.
 

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What pocossin said.
I think your casting describes pretty much what's known as 'negative self-fulfilling prophecy'... I read Tarot for decades, there is no card that describes skin color, mind you... I am afraid that you were read by a con artist and they messed with your psyche :( Next time, make sure you look for an ethical reader (they should have their code of ethics displayed or at least mentioned and it should include a clause like this: --first priority is the well being of the client and inspiration of hope and courage;
readings promote the client's control over their own life and respect client's ability to make decisions in the light of his/her own beliefs and values etc.)
Hope this helps.
 

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Yes,you will absolutely be free someday and it may be the white girl who will set you free.
 

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64.3 talks about the importance of making a commitment. It says you cannot know everything or fix everything in advance, you have to choose your focus and go for it.
I believe the I Ching is telling you the way to get passed the negative reading is to make a stronger commitment to your current relationship. It is highly unlikely in this day and age where people live far into their 80's and 90's that you will never met a fair skinned woman whom you find attractive. But that don't mean you will loose all self control and betray your girl friend/wife. Love the one you are with and trust that you will be strong enough to resist temptation when it inevitably appears. The reader may have given you a helpful warning but we all have free will.

Rosada
 

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Dont let jewels slip through your fingers just because some wizard told you theyre the wrong colour.
If you meet someone who is a genuine potential life and marriage partner, thats BIG. So, if you ask for a clear sign about your choice of partner, you might just get an answer. But dont ask just anybody. Ask the great big world of Spirit where you have Spirit Clan, or go higher towards the Top. And leave it to fate to decide how and when the answer may manifest.

Generally, we are free spirits within limits, and that freedom requires just a little bit of cooperation on our part. We have to take it. It won't be forced on us. We have to be wise about our choices, and ready to contend with whatever wants to enslave and destroy the life of free spirit.

I like 50 Ding in the context. Its a founding symbol of family, house, dynasty, and connection with the world of spirit, and suggests an auspicious resolution. 64 ends well after difficulties , the lines get better as you go along ?

Here's a story ( in the free download ) about 64 and writers block. It might help you get past your block.
http://www.ichingmeditations.com/2011/04/22/in-memory-of-jose-arguelles-celebrating-earth-day/
 
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Thank you guys for all the comments; it has helped to shed light into my situation. I have often thought about this being a negative self-fulfilling prophecy. Its kind of tough to treat your mind with your own mind.
 

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cajlus good luck and by the way, I see no problem with you preferring to be with one race over another since that is natural.
 

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I think this is off topic, but i often wonder could it be past lives that influence our current romantic choices? (Sorry for clumsy wording, but i don't know how to put it otherwise.) I am Caucasian, but mostly choose Asian partners - and for what my past life regression revealed, i do have strong past lives there... (Oh, and my natal Venus is in 9th house in Cancer, which screams partners from very different cultural, religious and ethnic background.) Just saying, as to whom we are attracted imho is not as simple as generally liking their hair/eyes color or whatsoever... Once again, sorry for the OT. ;)

cajlus good luck and by the way, I see no problem with you preferring to be with one race over another since that is natural.
 

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I think this is off topic, but i often wonder could it be past lives that influence our current romantic choices? (Sorry for clumsy wording, but i don't know how to put it otherwise.) I am Caucasian, but mostly choose Asian partners - and for what my past life regression revealed, i do have strong past lives there... (Oh, and my natal Venus is in 9th house in Cancer, which screams partners from very different cultural, religious and ethnic background.) Just saying, as to whom we are attracted imho is not as simple as generally liking their hair/eyes color or whatsoever... Once again, sorry for the OT. ;)

cajlus good luck and by the way, I see no problem with you preferring to be with one race over another since that is natural.
 

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There's a lot riding on choice of partner in terms of physical and spiritual evolution so we probably get spiritual help without asking, such as inbuilt predisposition, people we are naturally attracted to, events and encounters which draw our attention to or away from individuals.Thats something we can work with or against. Intuition might be the best guide.
I think its also an area where extra help is available by asking if you want it.
 

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p.s. Newlife, i got your pm... to avoid misunderstandings, i am a (hetero) 'gal, not a guy (and i do know my Vedic horoscope ;))

lb :bows:
 

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