Hexagram 7, the Army

[tcchai]

I was introduced to a pretty lady few days ago, and I feel that she got some liking for me. I consulted the online i ching by asking "what if I proceed the relationship?" The result turns out to be Hexagram 7, without changing lines.
Can someone please interprate? Thanks

 

[lloyd]

Something like: An army with as good head on it may go a long way; and we all share the resources, as they dwell in and around us. Welcome to "the army" of lovers

 

[tcchai]

Something like: An army with as good head on it may go a long way; and we all share the resources, as they dwell in and around us. Welcome to "the army" of lovers

Dear Lloyd,
I still dont get it, ".......may go a long way". What does that mean. thanks

 

[Trojina]

I was introduced to a pretty lady few days ago, and I feel that she got some liking for me. I consulted the online i ching by asking "what if I proceed the relationship?" The result turns out to be Hexagram 7, without changing lines.
Can someone please interprate? Thanks

i saw this simply as you view this as a plan of action, you ask how to 'proceed' thats your attitude to it..very much 'man sets out to capture heart of woman...phase 1'


If it were my answer i think i would simply proceed, make a move, see what happens. hex 7 isn't promising she'll say yes but it does seem you are in a good strategic position to go ahead with your plan of action....and i think it also suggests you give some thought to your approach to her.

i know we are meant to be spontaneous in these things but often romantic proposals are made with the precision of an army manouvre and she may like to be wooed in such a way or she may not. perhaps you can intuit how she might prefer you to approach

you may appear to her as 'a man with a mission' a man with an agenda...which could turn her on or she might find it a bit overwhelming...but i think most women want to be wanted so your're safe there lol

a later thought...if by chance you feel hesitation to approach her through lack of confidence etc this answer could indicate for you to be bold and go foward towards your objective..ie the pretty lady

It could be the answer is adressing your confidence levels..perhaps reflect on how confident you feel.?..too much confidence may hamper you if you come on too strong but so may too little if you fear to approach..thats something for you to think about here possibly

 

[lloyd]

It might mean that:
A) The army of your feelings should choose a leader from among them.
B) In armies each is a resource to the other ('enemies included).
Join the "battle" of love and enjoy.

 

[tcchai]

Dear lloyd & Trojan,
First of all, kindly accept my apology for not revealing my shortcoming. Actually I am a "herpes" carrier, a kind of infectious viral disease. I am in a dilemma, as perceived by Trojan - "you feel hesitation to approach her through lack of confidence ...."

Yes, for the reasons:
1) I dont have the guts to reveal my condition.
2) If I do and got rejected, news of my condition would spread. Only a close friend of my knew my condition.
3) She is beautiful, I cant bear to see her "destroyed".

I am so dejected, thank you guys for your comments.

 

[lloyd]

Hi tcchai - If I had known what you write now, I would have avoided my lighthearted approach ... Anyway, apology accepted. I guess Internet has provided you with all you need to know. Still, living in India I know that many people get cured from illnesses through Ayurvedic treatments (chech Indian websites) or homeopathy, where Western medicine failed. Don't give up.