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Hexgram 50 changing to 43 - Relationship Issues

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Hello All,
I am very new to this forum and the I-Ching as well. I recently went through a break-up but I certainly do not feel that it is over for good. I feel that this person is the love of my life. We are in different places as far as our relationship goes, but I still feel like we have so much more to experience together as a couple. My question was basically, what do I need to do to get my ex-girlfriend back? I guess I mean, what sort of attitude do I need to adopt, what should be my plan of action to bring about a reunion. The answer I received was Hexagram 50 'The Cauldron' with lines 1, 5, and 6 changing into 43 'Breakthrough'.
I also asked simply 'Will we get back together?' and received Hexagram 38 with line 3 changing into 14.
I am wondering if any experienced I-Ching users may want to share any insight as to how to interpret these answers. I appreciate it so much!
I look forward to exploring this site more fully.
 

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Perhaps you need to be open and honest with your ex friend, come clean as they say at the police station, own up to your past misdeeds and repent your "sins', tell her. Whether she accepts or not is another matter but at least you will have tried to regain her confidence.

Line 38.3 suggests this, that she will ignore you, push you away, probably have a few "hot" words for you as well in between but don't give up as your other answer suggests the need to speak your mind, honestly and openly and to persevere.
 

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