Hi everyone

[superstar]

Can someone tell me what hexagram 6 lines 2,4 and 6 turning into hexagram 8 means?
Could it mean internal conflict as to whether to unite with me or not. Or does it mean even if they do come back to me there might be another conflict anyways so why bother. Or does it mean meeting me halfway in a conflict and coming back?

The question has to do whether someone will come back to me on their own.
Thanks!

 

[willowfox]

The question has to do whether someone will come back to me on their own.
Thanks!

It suggests that his thoughts are still very conflicted as to the best thing to do under the circumstances, so he needs to let go of all past issues that are concerning him, a need to restart afresh and it looks like he will make contact/meet you. Obviously a situation like this is difficult as you are dealing with a rather stubborn human being that needs to see the light on their own and when you are dealing with such a slow, cautious man it will take time and a mountain of patience.

 

[superstar]

Thank you for shedding light on the situation. Alot makes sense now.

 

[superstar]

Bad luck or me?

I'm having some problems establishing a long term relationship. I'm attractive and there are opportunities but nothing ever comes out of it or sticks.

So I asked what are the chances of meeting someone to have a long term relationship with this year? I received Hexagram 41 unchanged which I interpreted to mean that I have to decrease something in order to increase something else. To clarify what it meant I asked:

What do I need to decrease in order to increase my chances for a long term relationship?

Hexagram 49 lines 1,3 and 4 changing into Hexagram 8

I looked it up in the forum but found nothing to help me interpret the meaning. I'm wondering if someone can clarify things for me. Thanks!