Hi everyone!

[superstar]

I was wondering if anyone can give me a clear interpretation of Hexagram 16. I asked if someone I haven't seen or heard from for about a month misses me and got Hexagram 16. Is this about lies and deception or it all in my imagination?

I also asked if this person wanted to contact me again and received
Hexagram 36 lines 1, 3 and 5 turning into Hexagram 8. I know Hexagram 36 is negative but the outcome Hexagram 8 confuses me?

Any imput is greatly welcomed! Cheers!

 

[icastes]

Yu, 16, means beforehand and connotes ideas such as know beforehand, premonition, or preparation. The upper trigram is thunder, the lower earth. Thus, in the spring, thunder appears on the earth. The earth is given life again. The plants sprout. The appearance is happy and cheerful. It is a time to prepare for new work and new actions. For divination, it means the coming of joy and good cheer. But one must make necessary preparations in advance then go forth with caution and never relaxing. Thus, good fortune is maintained, and calamity forestalled. As for 36, it means that you have to wait until the right time comes. Then you will have a good, smooth union.

 

[superstar]

Thank you Icastes for taking the time to explain...

 

[bamboo]

i am in the habit now of seeing the second hex as the context of the question..so yours would seem to say, "in the context of seeking union with this person, your answer lies in the 36 and lines.." could be the person is having a difficult time, and/or staying low-key. do you suspect there is a lack of trust?
16 unchanging is a tough one to decipher for me. the impetus is there, the idea...but no movement. 16 without change is sort of like someone thinking about doing something, getting ready to get ready, but may not get around to it or truly decide to take action.

 

[sooo]

I was wondering if anyone can give me a clear interpretation of Hexagram 16. I asked if someone I haven't seen or heard from for about a month misses me and got Hexagram 16. Is this about lies and deception or it all in my imagination?

I also asked if this person wanted to contact me again and received
Hexagram 36 lines 1, 3 and 5 turning into Hexagram 8. I know Hexagram 36 is negative but the outcome Hexagram 8 confuses me?

Any imput is greatly welcomed! Cheers!

An awakened imagination is amoral. It could be about hallucinations, dreams, or wishful thinking, but the inspiration could be just what the doctor ordered.

36 isn't bad. It's light or fire inside the earth, or perhaps a cave. He's not letting on his thoughts. line 1 could say he's laying low, there is talking in his head, as there is in yours. Line 3, I'd see as saying he's in no way ready to come out of his cave, so you weigh whether he's really worth it. And line 5, he's playing crazy in some way, to hide behind, most likely. If he is a 36 person, and some people are, then that's just part of what you get. Relate to his inner light, and things should be alright.

 

[superstar]

To help out it's a trust issue. I like someone and we had a great beginning to start something wonderful. We felt comfortable with each other and were compatable. He did and said something though that went against my standards and requirements of a relationship and showed that he did not take me seriously. I do not trust him or believe him anymore. I set him straight and then gave him an ultimatum. I told him what he has to do if he wants to continue with me and to contact me when he decides. I gave him time to lick his wounds after I exposed him but he is taking too long. Now he is ignoring me. So I guess it's over?

 

[white owl]

Your standards of a relationship are not the same as the next person male or female and there should be no blame in that. Hex 16 can go either way, but in this situation that you described. I'd have to say, he isnt too excited, about running into you arms, but rather excited enough to, probably punch a wall.
Hex 36.1.3.5 to 8 Does he want to contact me? no, your number is lying out of reach right now.

 

[superstar]

Wow! Whiteowl dead on!

That is exactly what is happening. Wow!

Can you help out with the last question?

Why is he ignoring me? I'm curious to find out.

Hexagram 10 lines 5 and 6 turns into Hexagram 54

I would appreciate your imput :bows:

 

[white owl]

Wow! Whiteowl dead on!

That is exactly what is happening. Wow!

Can you help out with the last question?

Why is he ignoring me? I'm curious to find out.

Hexagram 10 lines 5 and 6 turns into Hexagram 54

I would appreciate your imput :bows:

Ok sure..In this hex 10.5.6 to 54 He is showing you that, he has his pride & dignity like that of a tiger, he wants you to sense this. By giving this all breathing room, otherwise because a mother load was dropped and he is not going to be the submissive one in this dance.
He seems to be a lil more on the aggressive side? No abuse right? Just strong personality/s?

 

[superstar]

Yes Whiteowl! A mother load was dumped on him not only by me he also has issues/baggage from his divorce! I told him what I want from a man and he has to decide if he wants to continue with me or not. I did sense repressed anger when he did not get his way which is why I backed off but no never aggression. We both have strong personalities true. Yeah I'm seeing as time goes by it's to my advantage I'm seeing this guy n a new light and he is not up to my standards. Not a gentleman.

Greatly appreciated!

 

[superstar]

And he can take his pride and dignity and stuff it! He did me wrong. I was aggressive with him because his behaviour was insulting. Maybe it's showing my feelings towards him? I have pride and dignity. I'm a lady. I don't know if you are a man but would you take a woman you are interested in romantically out to dinner and have her pay for half? Then I caught him on a dating site? That tells it all he was just looking for a good time with a fool!

 

[white owl]

And he can take his pride and dignity and stuff it! He did me wrong. I was aggressive with him because his behaviour was insulting. Maybe it's showing my feelings towards him? I have pride and dignity. I'm a lady. I don't know if you are a man but would you take a woman you are interested in romantically out to dinner and have her pay for half? Then I caught him on a dating site? That tells it all he was just looking for a good time with a fool!

Hi Superstar,

Was this your first meeting in person? Did you mainly have an on-line relationship?

 

[superstar]

And since you have me going Whiteowl and I'm seeing this as a good lesson...I got some Hexagrams 4 in other readings..

Here's another one for inspiration...

Is this the end of the affair with J?

Hexagram 3 unchanging

What is your take on that?

I'm also asking the I Ching to see if the hexagrams just mirror my desires/intuition and not the situation. I mean I know men do not call to say it is over. No phone call means it is over.

 

[superstar]

Hi White owl no I did not meet him on a dating site we were friends and became intimate. I caught him on there by accident a mutual friend of ours is on one and I was checking out her profile and saw his and confronted him about it.

 

[white owl]

Hi White owl no I did not meet him on a dating site we were friends and became intimate. I caught him on there by accident a mutual friend of ours is on one and I was checking out her profile and saw his and confronted him about it.

(Speculation)He probably ran out of money or is not good with his finances anyways & when the date came he was broke. I had this happen to me once before somewhat similar, where the guy's credit card came back declined & I ended up paying for the whole meal. ( I have always wanted to use that icon) I did end up marry this man who is now my ex-husband who destroyed our credit, went through 7 jobs in 3 years. I became his Mother, it was awful.He constantly kept sabotaging our lives. It was hell.He was also a womanizer, I am so glad we are divorced now its been 5 yrs. We are still friends, he is now remarried , with same issues. He was/is the great charmer( but thats where it stops)
I would take it as a warning..& stick with your ideals

I do sense anger issues..Please be careful.

 

[superstar]

OMG! White owl God works in mysterious ways finding you on here like this. He is exactly as you describe your ex. He used to be a player and so am I we used to joke about that. He does miss his family alot and still loves his ex. I was helping him get a makeover, new clothes new haircut. He kept telling me he has no money and was very worried about it wanting to open his own business etc. I thought he meant temporarily because of divorce etc..He revealed he's been in and out of jobs and was stressed about finances. He even mentioned his ex would come running if he had money. OK this is it. He is broke so he'll never find anyone only some sucker. He had his eye lately on a co-worker who he bragged had a BMW and was gorgeous and rich. He also was checking out my house alot! OK Ok got it! WOW! I had my suspicions...My first impulse was right thathe was only good to keep as a lover nothing more....we were good there and as friends actually. He did pay most of the time mind you. He would like give me all his money from his wallet and he would pay for drinks etc..it was just that last weekend...and I got pissy because I had treated pizza brought 2 bottles of wine to his place and gave him an expensive housewarming present a painting. He just bought a condo. The only reason I did that was because he would get $40 parking tickets everytime he would drive 1 hour to come pick me up and then take me back to his place to spend the weekends.

He had told me he was on a dating site while we were friends and I told him if we click in bed he should get off and see how things would turn out with us. This way we could focus on each other only. I told him I would stop dating other men as well. He got stubborn about that and told me eventually he would get off the dating site and that he had made a new friend on there with this woman. I got offended and insulted. I told him I'm in your bed I tell you I want to continue and you are still looking? Actually that was the main reason I broke it off with him. I gave him an ultimatum he had to get off the dating site because I come first not second. It came as a shock to him because I did it when he called me from one of his business trups. He has to make a decision. That's where we left it off.

I'm not in love with him it is still the beginning but we are comfortable together we are drawn together. He thought I was strange for leaving him like that without waiting to see how things would turn out. But I'm a rules girl I never come second. I want exclusive.

So now that you know the whole story White owl what is your take on Hexagram 3 and my question is the affair over?...I'd love to hear it please and thank you for sharing your story with me...xoxoxo

 

[white owl]

OMG! White owl God works in mysterious ways finding you on here like this. He is exactly as you describe your ex. He used to be a player and so am I we used to joke about that. He does miss his family alot and still loves his ex. I was helping him get a makeover, new clothes new haircut. He kept telling me he has no money and was very worried about it wanting to open his own business etc. I thought he meant temporarily because of divorce etc..He revealed he's been in and out of jobs and was stressed about finances. He even mentioned his ex would come running if he had money. OK this is it. He is broke so he'll never find anyone only some sucker. He had his eye lately on a co-worker who he bragged had a BMW and was gorgeous and rich. He also was checking out my house alot! OK Ok got it! WOW! I had my suspicions...My first impulse was right thathe was only good to keep as a lover nothing more....we were good there and as friends actually. He did pay most of the time mind you. He would like give me all his money from his wallet and he would pay for drinks etc..it was just that last weekend...and I got pissy because I had treated pizza brought 2 bottles of wine to his place and gave him an expensive housewarming present a painting. He just bought a condo. The only reason I did that was because he would get $40 parking tickets everytime he would drive 1 hour to come pick me up and then take me back to his place to spend the weekends.

He had told me he was on a dating site while we were friends and I told him if we click in bed he should get off and see how things would turn out with us. This way we could focus on each other only. I told him I would stop dating other men as well. He got stubborn about that and told me eventually he would get off the dating site and that he had made a new friend on there with this woman. I got offended and insulted. I told him I'm in your bed I tell you I want to continue and you are still looking? Actually that was the main reason I broke it off with him. I gave him an ultimatum he had to get off the dating site because I come first not second. It came as a shock to him because I did it when he called me from one of his business trups. He has to make a decision. That's where we left it off.

I'm not in love with him it is still the beginning but we are comfortable together we are drawn together. He thought I was strange for leaving him like that without waiting to see how things would turn out. But I'm a rules girl I never come second. I want exclusive.

So now that you know the whole story White owl what is your take on Hexagram 3 and my question is the affair over?...I'd love to hear it please and thank you for sharing your story with me...xoxoxo

Hi Superstar

I just fell off my branch! Lol! Yes you should be exclusive. I dont think you should stop being friends. I honestly dont think he will change for anyone and just cause you alot of emotional ache in the long run, if you & him were to become serious. You will end up being his Mother.I can tell you need a strong, independant man. He wants a Mom. I think remain friends and start dating men who have the real strong personality. Who have proven track records that they can take care of themselves. Hex 3 I think is saying turn it around..you be the strong friend, stay centered..He is way too high maintenance, look at how much he has already drained you (and you are not serious) whew..In fact my ex-husbands friends completley understood when I left my ex..it was just utter chaos! Choose someone who makes your heart free for your intimate affair and just high five this dude

 

[superstar]

Hi White owl

You read my mind! I'm off manhunting with my other single BF's This weekend Niagara Falls watch out LOL Will keep you posted when I find a new man...I feel like one of those women in Sex and the City...My dating adventures continues until I find the right mate for me

All the best to you wherever you are and thank you!

 

[white owl]

Sounds like fun! Have a great time!
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