Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Hello!
I am conscious that someone I care about is attracted to me mainly because of superficial reasons and is unable to penentrate and embrace the qualities I have within on a deeper level, despite a year of learning about each other (hope this makes sense). A does tend to tell me that i am intelligent and kind and caring etc and all the rest, but tells me I am beautiful much more. I probably read like a spoilt ungrateful woman that can never be pleased! Yes, it's lovely but the thought of being loved for appearance is an empty feeling and not permanent. Beauty doesnt last forever, solid bonds need something more substantial to last. I think my mind and heart is far superior and enriching than what is on the surface, although what is on the surface is striking too to many others. This is frustrating but I am guilty for feeding this by taking pride in my appearance. I tend to enjoy making an effort with my appearance
I asked IC what is x's view of me, I received 22. unchanging.
I think then my judgement on A was correct.
I then asked what action would be needed to bring our relationship to a deeper level i.e marraige! I received 22.6. > 36
Would IC be trying to tell me to darken my light, be plain and simple, forgo makeup and frills, get out the flats and the frumpy attire and hide my attactiveness?
or maybe it is saying I dont need to do anything at all, but to try and deepen the relationship would mean my light inside would be darkened because i'd just be a surface beauty and nothing else?!
Maybe I can chop off my nose to spite my face...?!
I am conscious that someone I care about is attracted to me mainly because of superficial reasons and is unable to penentrate and embrace the qualities I have within on a deeper level, despite a year of learning about each other (hope this makes sense). A does tend to tell me that i am intelligent and kind and caring etc and all the rest, but tells me I am beautiful much more. I probably read like a spoilt ungrateful woman that can never be pleased! Yes, it's lovely but the thought of being loved for appearance is an empty feeling and not permanent. Beauty doesnt last forever, solid bonds need something more substantial to last. I think my mind and heart is far superior and enriching than what is on the surface, although what is on the surface is striking too to many others. This is frustrating but I am guilty for feeding this by taking pride in my appearance. I tend to enjoy making an effort with my appearance
I asked IC what is x's view of me, I received 22. unchanging.
I think then my judgement on A was correct.
I then asked what action would be needed to bring our relationship to a deeper level i.e marraige! I received 22.6. > 36
Would IC be trying to tell me to darken my light, be plain and simple, forgo makeup and frills, get out the flats and the frumpy attire and hide my attactiveness?
or maybe it is saying I dont need to do anything at all, but to try and deepen the relationship would mean my light inside would be darkened because i'd just be a surface beauty and nothing else?!
Maybe I can chop off my nose to spite my face...?!