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Homeless Friend 22.6-36

brainfloat

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About a month ago I reunited with an old best friend of mine who I hadn't talked to in years. She has always had a major crisis going on and I used to be her only support. Every time we have gotten together this past month something has gone wrong with her and her boyfriend and 9 out of 10 times her boyfriend has punched or broken something.

It's extremely draining being around them, and im feeling emotionally and mentally dreadful. I've just ended a 3 year relationship because I know I'm not equipped to be in one right now. I have nothing to give, and really just need to become more in touch with myself. But now ive been sucked into this whole other hole. She's very sensitive and self-pitying though she has gone through alot. She drinks and smokes weed pretty often..she'd rather never be sober and Ive definatley outgrown that lifestyle. I'm not good with emotional intensity and drama. She's human and It's not her fault but I'm really torn here..

Her boyfriends mother kicked her out of their house yesterday and needs a place to stay because no one in her family can take her in. I'm used to living alone, I just moved out of my apartment back in with my father, and it would all be up to him anyways. I would feel so guilty if I let her live in her car, she recently lost her job as well. and she very well may lose her bofriend. I feel responsible for her..even though we've only been hanging out for a few weeks now. I asked the IC if living with her would be detrimental to my wellbeing..emotionally and mentally.

I got Hex 22 Line 6 changing to Hex 36.


I don't have the mental energy right this second to really decipher these Hexagrams so could someone help me out? I would be eternally grateful :bows:
 
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I remember years ago, when I had just had my heart-broken, it was coming up to Valentines Day. So I sent a number of friends a valentines day card sending them love. It worked wonderfully well on healing my own broken heart. x
 

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Are you saying if I start giving out love to her it'll end up healing me?
I agree but at the same time I know it'll be a very slow painful process..so I'm really worried. I feel like I have to commit to a huge relationship by her living with me when I just am not in a healthy state of being to begin with. I don't want to do anything out of guilt and feeling obligated which I always do..
I'm sure I seem cold about this..I guess I am trying to detach from her and the situation which is selfish..I'm extremely torn. She has a powerful presence that takes over everything and I don't know if I can keep my head up..or keep my own boundaries strong with her around.

Can someone help me out with these hexagrams? Hex 36 makes sense to me. I need to hide my light..either keep my inner distance or keep quiet about my opinion or advice about her situation. Which I never do..I dish out advice all the time and she doesn't really receive it in a good way.
 

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