How attracted to me is he? and Yi's answer 42.1.5.6 to 2.

[MeltingPot247]

I asked the question "How attracted to me is he?" Because ever since our first encounter I've been awestruck by him...in other words I never expected to meet someone that I'm so physically attracted to, that would allow me to get physical with them as I think I am of average appearance and have been told that I have a very quirky but warm personality. The answer I received is 42.1.5.6 changing to 2.My interpretation is that the attraction towards each other increases rather than decreases over time.42.1 That initial attraction42.5 Increasing due to the realisation that we are both kind42.6 Trying to balance/control the emotions behind the attraction perhaps? 42.6 would make sense in that context as I don't think either of us have given away too much about ourselves, enjoy company when together but I feel like I think of him more when we are apart.Changing to 2? I have received unchanging 2 for other related questions and assume in this context that attraction is based on give and take?***Also got Hexagram 50 unchanging as relationship potential over next 3 months, so interpreted that as meaning that this would be as it already has been a transformational relationship where we blend together harmoniously in most cases...there have been no major upsets over past 8 months thus far.Very new to this, appreciate any thoughts or wisdom on this matter Thank you

 

[marybluesky]

I understand the sensual attraction as I met a guy this year who made me feel flamed as I felt in my teen years
Hexagram 42: Increase. According to Liu: "When the superior man discovers good, he follows it. When he has errors, he corrects them." So you should take advantage of the attraction that's already there, trying to increase it, polishing the relationship and getting more intimate at the right time.
Line 1:"It is beneficial to undertake a great enterprise. Sublime good fortune. No blame." The message is clear: sounds like he cares about you more than he shows, and you can enhance the attraction by discovering more of your power. Maybe some simple initiative leads to great results.
Line 5: "If you are sincere and benevolent in your heart, without consulting, there will be great good fortune. People will trust your benevolent character."
You can get more intimate by expressing your feelings and vulnerability.
Line 6: "He benefits no one. Someone will attack him. His mind is not consistent. Misfortune."
He's likely to be afraid of powerful attraction, perceiving it as an "attack". His behavior is inconsistent as a result: pull and push; OR, if you're inconsistent in your willingness to move the things forward, you can't expect the best.
Hexagram 2 means the "going with the flow" you mentioned. You are receptive, though there's no clear direction.

Overall, sounds like the attraction is there and can be increased, mainly by your decision, but it's not leading to any considerable movement on his part anytime soon.

 

[MeltingPot247]

Thank you Marybluesky,Each aspect of your reply resonated with me. RE: The first part "when he discovers good he follows it, and errors he corrects them" - very much this guys approach to life. As for the changing lines, I feel very fortunate to have met someone like him - in fact I have a lot to be grateful for this year over all. - so law of attraction might be at play as benevolence which is part of my nature has drawn many blessings.I have sensed that he was hurt as a child - as I was hurt as a child but this is not something any one of us has brought up. However, in my 'student' psychology forum while analysing my childhood I mentioned to my peers that I would often wonder 'when am I going to get hurt again' not if but when because it happened so regularly. So if indeed he was hurt as I was, then that is why I have taken things slower than usual - not having deep and meaningfuls until there is more trust, which I have thought will build up over time if we both allow it.

 

[Trojina]

I asked the question "How attracted to me is he?" Because ever since our first encounter I've been awestruck by him...in other words I never expected to meet someone that I'm so physically attracted to, that would allow me to get physical with them as I think I am of average appearance and have been told that I have a very quirky but warm personality. The answer I received is 42.1.5.6 changing to 2.My interpretation is that the attraction towards each other increases rather than decreases over time.42.1 That initial attraction42.5 Increasing due to the realisation that we are both kind42.6 Trying to balance/control the emotions behind the attraction perhaps? 42.6 would make sense in that context as I don't think either of us have given away too much about ourselves, enjoy company when together but I feel like I think of him more when we are apart.Changing to 2? I have received unchanging 2 for other related questions and assume in this context that attraction is based on give and take?***Also got Hexagram 50 unchanging as relationship potential over next 3 months, so interpreted that as meaning that this would be as it already has been a transformational relationship where we blend together harmoniously in most cases...there have been no major upsets over past 8 months thus far.Very new to this, appreciate any thoughts or wisdom on this matter Thank you

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