Clarity,
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PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
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Good advice indeed. He did write back saying "Ok, I was wrong and you were right" and I was so tempted to continue the conversation with this not about me winning but thought best of it. I can see it is beyond either of us to weed through the issues and why #6 recommends an arbitrator. Thank you, I feel all is well to let it go.don't have much experience with 6 uc, but in hindsight i usually find any argument that had to do with 6 often came from my own unresolved inner conflict. the judgment speaks of being sincere / honest yet meeting with opposition. if there's any particular advice in the judgment i'd pay heed to it's:
A cautious halt halfway brings good fortune.
Going through to the end brings misfortune.
which i'd read as don't try to get your point across at all cost, rather stop halfway, i feel in any argument it's always better to be the "bigger man" than become petty, this could be the maturity or "seeing the great man", even if it's admitting someone's right when they're obviously wrong (worked wonders in the past during conflicts with some of my bosses ).
This was such good advice. There are reasonable expectations we need to establish with each other to build a strong foundation. I wrote and asked if we could have an open discussion about what we can expect and how we can practice that with each other. Feel like it's taking action to solve a problem. Thank you!6 advice also worth paying heed to is from the Image, “When rights and duties are agreed to in advance there is no need for conflict.” (Wilhelm)This makes me feel you could use this recent exchange as an opportunity to email something like, “Oh thank you. I am so glad to know its safe to be open and honest with each other!”, to establish the right to be open and honest with each other.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).