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emperor888

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I have a crush on this girl I met a few weeks ago but I'm way too shy to approach her, so I asked I-ching "how can I approach my crush?" and I got 1 unchanging.
I believe I gotta find creative ways to strike up a conversation!?
What do you guys think?
 

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Hi Emperor888

1 un has been known to mean you need to raise your standards (sorry) (Bradford) or this thing will evaporate into the ether (Hilary).

I had it for a house to buy and both meanings applied. I didn’t get it and after all I thought I should raise my standards and aim higher.
 

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Hexagram 1. The Creative is about how we create our world by having a clear vision of our intention. I think it is advising you to continue to put thought/energy into your idea. As you mentally rehearse talking to your crush you will find your unconscious will start giving you guidance and awareness of opportunities.
 

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So basically I gotta take the initiative?

Well that's step one,
and the easy part.

Then persist, persist, persist.
continuously, untiring.
Don't just smile at her once.
Give her a story to tell her grandchildren.
"and I didn't really like his nose,
so I turned him down the first time.
But, he just wouldn't give up,
and wooed me thusly..."

It wouldn't hurt to eat your wheaties and to workout.
 
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I have experienced 1 uc to be a catalyst, not necessarily advice or "go for it". It's like a spark. There is no suggestion it will go well or badly, but you will discover something for sure.
 

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This wasn't a "should I?" question.
This was a "how to" Question.
Very, very, very different questions.

The "how to" is not to give up,
not to throw in the towel.

Olga, you 'gave up' on wanting the house.
 

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I didn’t think a How or Should made such a difference.

I have to pay more attention then.

So a How do I gets an encouragement while a Should I doesn’t.
 

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Hexagram 1. The Creative is about how we create our world by having a clear vision of our intention. I think it is advising you to continue to put thought/energy into your idea. As you mentally rehearse talking to your crush you will find your unconscious will start giving you guidance and awareness of opportunities.
Thank you! I'm visualizing us both together and I'm being successfull on my approach.
 

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Well that's step one,
and the easy part.

Then persist, persist, persist.
continuously, untiring.
Don't just smile at her once.
Give her a story to tell her grandchildren.
"and I didn't really like his nose,
so I turned him down the first time.
But, he just wouldn't give up,
and wooed me thusly..."

It wouldn't hurt to eat your wheaties and to workout.
That was very helpful, much gratitude!
 

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I didn’t think a How or Should made such a difference.

It makes all the difference in the world.

At our imploring, Our genie can advise how to accomplish something, that may not be in our best interests.

(I have one example from my life,
yes it involved someone I was dating,
it was a wake-up moment, I needed it.
me, Something like, "how can I...?"
Yi, "like this.."
me, "yeah but that would mean..."
me, "..And I don't want that!"
Yi, "good morning sunshine,
it is nice to see you are awake"
I gladly gave up all desire to continue.
If I had begun with an evaluating question, I would have avoided that 'married to the mafia' woman, those damned beer goggles)



That is why it is good to always start out with questions with some sort of evaluation, as 20 advises to look before leaping.

"eh, what about this?"
"what's best for me to do about this?"
"what lies down that path?"
etc
 
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