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How can I learn how to love? 24.5 - 3

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Hey,
I've posted a few times now about this relationship, it's going through a change I think and so there's a lot of questions. I am so grateful for this site and others' reflections, it's made me think deeper about my readings.
We had rushed into our dreams of the future without paying attention to where we are. Things have been shaky for a while, then I spoke openly to him about the doubts I had about my own heart, my fears and how I wanted to take more time, but I really don't wanna lose him. He understands, says he often feels confused too. He's busy for a while (festival time), so we won't have a conversation about it for a while, and it's a good opportunity to reflect on myself and see what's really going on inside so I can be clear.
I asked, how can I learn how to love?
24.5 - 3
"great-hearted return, no regrets"
What do you think?
I felt like it was a good sign, that it's possible to love in this situation, to sort of "begin again" upon reflection with a more stable footing.

I asked the question in general terms because the troubles in our relationship have made me realise my heart struggles to love at all, its not just with him; but I felt the answer turned it specific again, into this precise situation.
 
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Yes, 24 the return ! You have to start over... 24.5 - 3 : this line speaks of the return of a relationship "Return magnanimous. No remorse." With hexagram 3: the chaos of the beginnings! So, Yi advises you to go back to this person...
 

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Yes, 24 the return ! You have to start over... 24.5 - 3 : this line speaks of the return of a relationship "Return magnanimous. No remorse." With hexagram 3: the chaos of the beginnings! So, Yi advises you to go back to this person...
Yes! I feel excited..like this time we can start with more care and more realistic. I hope I can do it.
 

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24.5 Blofeld: Returning for some high purpose -- no regret!

Hex 3 Blofeld (Image): This hexagram symbolizes lightning spewed forth by the clouds -- difficulty prevails! The Superior Man busies himself setting things in order.
Hex 3 Blofeld: Difficulty followed by sublime success! Persistence in a righteous course brings reward; but do not seek some new goal (or destination); it is highly advantageous to consolidate the present position

From my point of view it seems that you went away from your hart in order to chase something your brain perceives just perfect for you. How it is possible not to feel love for something that looks so nice?! But you keep struggling because the whole time deep inside you feel that somehow something misses. Brain is in love but hart stays cold. No matter how hard we try we can’t make our hart to love something or someone, no matter how perfect he seems. That doesn’t mean we do not know how to love but only that we detached from our true feelings and started to listen only our brain. I would say that you need to return to you hart and be honest with it. Maybe, after you take your time and analyse this confusion within you- which won’t be easy because of difficulties in above mentioned perception, you’ll give up this story with this guy (or not) but there will be no regret – you’ll know that that is the best for you on the long run.
 

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Brain is in love but hart stays cold. No matter how hard we try we can’t make our hart to love something or someone, no matter how perfect he seems. That doesn’t mean we do not know how to love but only that we detached from our true feelings and started to listen only our brain.
I can see how it can be interpreted both ways. I feel like we have had our relationship so far as quite a crazy dream; as you say, head instead of heart, in love with an idea. For us both. And now it is about whether it can become real love or not. Not necessarily to give up on him, but on the way our relationship has been, and begin again, step by step and see if it is possible. The message of line 5 seems to be in the right place, returning to self to restore and understand, then for new beginnings...
If I get clear in myself, then the way will become clear, and no action needs to be taken at this time.
 

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I asked the oracle, is it possible to begin again with him?
The answer was 36.1.3 - 2.
Perhaps a warning of the possibility of being hurt; and the hurt that is already there.
 

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Ah sentimental relationships !!! Anyway, whether it's 24 the return of your relationship (I don't know where you both are), or 24 the return to self, refocusing and return to self should always be part of our life, each day, not only in hexagram 24... :)
There is a very interesting article of Hilary about "Advise for relationship reading"...
 

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Ah sentimental relationships !!! Anyway, whether it's 24 the return of your relationship (I don't know where you both are), or 24 the return to self, refocusing and return to self should always be part of our life, each day, not only in hexagram 24... :)
There is a very interesting article of Hilary about "Advise for relationship reading"...
Point taken 😉 time for some 24
 

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