How can I let him know how I feel? 13.1.3.6 - 45

[moonviewer]

Hello,
I've posted about this relationship before, so I'm sorry, I know relationship readings aren't the most interesting. But I'm struggling with this situation, and I would value any insight.
I was going out to join my partner in Nepal, but I couldn't make it, and I wasn't sure if I really should commit. Now, the imagination has fallen away, dreams dissolved and under all that it's clear that we love each other and I am committed to him. We are talking about him getting a visa to come here. However, now it seems like he's the one who's unsure. I can understand it, because it's scary to leave your home, and go into the Unknown, and I haven't exactly been a perfectly steady companion over these months. I feel like the boy who cried wolf, because we made so many plans together before and it all fell apart, now I get it but it could be too late, and it's no use me telling him my dreams for us because we already had those conversations.
What can I say or do, to prove my commitment? I asked, how can I let him know how I feel, and got:
13.1.3.6 - 45

Many thanks.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

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Hello,
I've posted about this relationship before, so I'm sorry, I know relationship readings aren't the most interesting. But I'm struggling with this situation, and I would value any insight.
I was going out to join my partner in Nepal, but I couldn't make it, and I wasn't sure if I really should commit. Now, the imagination has fallen away, dreams dissolved and under all that it's clear that we love each other and I am committed to him. We are talking about him getting a visa to come here. However, now it seems like he's the one who's unsure. I can understand it, because it's scary to leave your home, and go into the Unknown, and I haven't exactly been a perfectly steady companion over these months. I feel like the boy who cried wolf, because we made so many plans together before and it all fell apart, now I get it but it could be too late, and it's no use me telling him my dreams for us because we already had those conversations.
What can I say or do, to prove my commitment? I asked, how can I let him know how I feel, and got:
13.1.3.6 - 45

Many thanks.

Hi! I'll give a try cause i received 13 in a love situation like you some months ago.

First of all, I in 13 there's a person who's sorrounded by othet people: is this you or he? Or both? In my case, for example, he was sorrounded by many other people, included a woman with whom he probably had something.

To your question: I think you need some valuable help to let him know you really love him. In line 1 is clear that everything is still started, so everything is possible right know, in good or bad. You're risking in the same way letting him come to you from Nepal. Be sincere.
In line 3: you don't probably trust each other, and even yourself. I think it's normal: he has to leave his own home country for the relationship (if some details are missing, sorry, I read this thread for the first time!). It could be that ine of you have "secondary objectives" and not only the love who binds you is an objective. Maybe he's seeking a better life. That's risky.
Last line: that's a risky adventure you both undertake. Inside your heart and outside.

Result: 45. Again, a group of people gatheting together. Cooperation is needed if you want to go further in this! It's positive. But sufference is given, as it's part of every relationship.


Clavdia

 

[moonviewer]

H

Hi! I'll give a try cause i received 13 in a love situation like you some months ago.

First of all, I in 13 there's a person who's sorrounded by othet people: is this you or he? Or both? In my case, for example, he was sorrounded by many other people, included a woman with whom he probably had something.

To your question: I think you need some valuable help to let him know you really love him. In line 1 is clear that everything is still started, so everything is possible right know, in good or bad. You're risking in the same way letting him come to you from Nepal. Be sincere.
In line 3: you don't probably trust each other, and even yourself. I think it's normal: he has to leave his own home country for the relationship (if some details are missing, sorry, I read this thread for the first time!). It could be that ine of you have "secondary objectives" and not only the love who binds you is an objective. Maybe he's seeking a better life. That's risky.
Last line: that's a risky adventure you both undertake. Inside your heart and outside.

Result: 45. Again, a group of people gatheting together. Cooperation is needed if you want to go further in this! It's positive. But sufference is given, as it's part of every relationship.


Clavdia

Thank you Claudia! That's so helpful, I guess you have been in a similar situation because that all sounds right.
I've thought it through all day, and remembered the most important thing in our relationship isn't about pleasing ourselves or each other but about supporting each other to help others - and we had sort of lost that, in our dreams and desires where it seemed like our romantic wishes would be fulfilled or lost at any moment. h. 45 seems as much about gathering all the parts of myself as about gathering us together and gathering a wider group of people with us. I gathered myself to write a message - and I hope I have communicated clearly, so we can lay the basis for a more supportive and straightforward relationship, since we certainly are taking a lot of risks.
Thank you so much for your insights, go well!