Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
49.2 could also mean that it is you who are ready for a decisive change, but you need to think through such change, thats is where forewarned forearmed line comes up.
Why do women think they can change a man?
I think this reading has two meanings, at least. One is that 'a speaking staff' is who one is, and any change will be for a time only. Two is that I think line 2 speaks to your own sense of peace and concord, with things as they really are.
Another peculiar thing I've observed over many years. A woman falls for a guy for the way he is, very often traits like being his own man, maybe a rebel, a loner, an artist. Then they marry, have a child, and at first he may even appear to conform to his new role, but before too long he reverts to his original and actual ways, only now this angers her; she resents and even hates the very things which attracted her to him in the first place. If he yields to her will, that's not satisfying either because she has lost what she was originally attracted to.
Brutally honest? Forget him. Move on and be content.
Well that tells me that he'll always be a scumbag, huh?
"What is it about me that has allowed him to soften up and settle down, despite his past transgressions?"
So there's something much more rewarding about changing a man -- being the cause of his growth and development. But the problem is, like you say, there's a very small chance that this man really is willing to change his ways.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).