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How does she feel about me? 1.1.5>50

Flax90s

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Hi everyone,
My ex and I have been trying to remain friendly. Unfortunately, we always end up in an argument. We just can't seem to understand each other. Anything I say would piss her off. I am starting to think she hates me and this is pointless.
So I asked I Ching: how does she feel about me?
I think she can't stand me.
I got 1.1.5>50
Please help!
Flax
 
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Hi, this may be saying, she does not hate you. Stand back from your own reactions.
hexagram 50 speaks of a fire that is used to feed people and of the process of self-transformation, to make yourself noble and worthy.
Hexagram 1 is a dynamic, active hexagram. So there is a lot of energy there. Line 5 says, see the great man. You need to put aside your grievances and petty motives and consult the wise and great parts of yourselves, so that you can transform all of this anger and argument. It will become a fire that is beneficial for your own self-transformation and to help others.
In other words, practice kindness and keep your mind on what unites you.Stop projecting and reading to much into the situation. Be kind, when you see her. She will respond in kind.
 

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Totally agree with loverofknowledge, if you can harness the real positive energy you have she may well become attracted to that, it may shine and she might see that.
Negative energy is not attractive.

Steve
 

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I think you're spot on. I think petty is the perfect word to describe me right now.
I have made a clear decision to back off. I attended my first therapy session today. Instead of drowning in misery, I am working on myself.
I will try not to push for answers or beg for her understanding anymore. Although, I will always be kind and responsive if she reaches out. After all, I love and care for her deeply.
You seriously nailed it.
I will come back to let you know how it turns out. I guess we will find out what hexagram 1 really means (thanks for your respond on my other cast).
Thanks again loverofknowledge!
 

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