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Hello! I'm currently taking a hiatus from dating for a while due to so many unsuccessful attempts at dating last year and realizing I'm better suited to just wait(Yi has mentioned not to act either). i thought this was because I'll have no opportunity for romances.

Well now that I'm taking a hiatus and just wanting to find friendships and connections in my hobbies- it immediately seems like some people are interested in me either sexually or romantically and I'm feeling queasy because I don't want to go through the same experiences again and my astrological readings show I'm dealing with a hard Saturn/Venus transit until February. At first it appears that aspect is supposed to delay love/romance- instead it's looking like people are returning from the past who were former friends/acquaintances.

I asked Yi how much attention am I supposed to expect especially since I'm afraid I'll run into the same mess. I got 11.6>26

I know I don't have to feel so protective, but a lot of things happened this year to the point where I'm just celibate.
 

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11.6 > 26

Cleary (1): The castle walls crumble back into dry moats. Don’t use the army. Giving orders in one’s own domain, even if right, there will be regret.

Cleary (2): … Announcing order in one’s own locality is shameful, in spite of correctness.

This isn’t the time to take on anything big or difficult or to overhaul your situation into being something other than what it is. Let the past fall away, keep things simple, do what you have to do. Wait until external conditions are more suitable. The flip side is that 11.6 can be about your own walls coming down, and sometimes that’s necessary, but I interpret this more like trying to move into a house a week the wrecking ball hits. How could you actually live there? But perhaps one day you walk by and there’s been major progress on the renovation. Then you could consider. Seems like a caution not to rush that process and maybe most importantly not to try to control it.

edit: there just happens to be a recent reply here in the forum to a thread about the fan yao 26.6 > 11. It occurs to me that in some ways 11.6 is about being at the bottom of a cycle and 26.6 is being at the top/climax yet both are about letting go and surrendering. Both are death, both are birth. Sometimes 11.6, which sounds so catastrophic, can be “better” for what we actually desire than 26.6 which sounds so heavenly. The point may be that, either way, we aren’t really in control of either so focus on what’s within our scope and let larger forces have the rest.
 
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I asked Yi how much attention am I supposed to expect especially since I'm afraid I'll run into the same mess. I got 11.6>26

Is it too presumptuous of me to think that you really mean how much unwanted (negative, creepy, etc.) attention you can expect?

I see two things here:
26.6 reads, "Bearing the course of Heaven, your plea is heard."

And along with this you have 26's upper trigram Mountain changing to give you trigam Earth over the Creative in Hex. 11.

As with many responses from the Yi, yours reads 'if you do this (i.e. bear the course of heaven) THEN there will be a response - a.k.a. 'your plea is heard!'

I can see it saying: if you are clear, focused, and creative, then this can lead to good things! I imagine it can include pursuing your interests, AND that even if you get less-than-desirable attention, you will have the know-how to deal with it! (Ex. just saying 'no!' is an appropriate response I think.)

Best, D.
 
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11.6 > 26

Cleary (1): The castle walls crumble back into dry moats. Don’t use the army. Giving orders in one’s own domain, even if right, there will be regret.

Cleary (2): … Announcing order in one’s own locality is shameful, in spite of correctness.

This isn’t the time to take on anything big or difficult or to overhaul your situation into being something other than what it is. Let the past fall away, keep things simple, do what you have to do. Wait until external conditions are more suitable. The flip side is that 11.6 can be about your own walls coming down, and sometimes that’s necessary, but I interpret this more like trying to move into a house a week the wrecking ball hits. How could you actually live there? But perhaps one day you walk by and there’s been major progress on the renovation. Then you could consider. Seems like a caution not to rush that process and maybe most importantly not to try to control it.

edit: there just happens to be a recent reply here in the forum to a thread about the fan yao 26.6 > 11. It occurs to me that in some ways 11.6 is about being at the bottom of a cycle and 26.6 is being at the top/climax yet both are about letting go and surrendering. Both are death, both are birth. Sometimes 11.6, which sounds so catastrophic, can be “better” for what we actually desire than 26.6 which sounds so heavenly. The point may be that, either way, we aren’t really in control of either so focus on what’s within our scope and let larger forces have the rest.
Hmm- What this could be pointing to is not to rush my feelings or emotions about anything too. Like naturally this hiatus and feeling of celibacy will end probably on its own terms and I should just handle any type of advances of others with a simple decline and keep it moving with my life.
 

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Hmm- What this could be pointing to is not to rush my feelings or emotions about anything too. Like naturally this hiatus and feeling of celibacy will end probably on its own terms and I should just handle any type of advances of others with a simple decline and keep it moving with my life.
I think that makes sense. I like the way you interpet that. Especially those past people! They’re from the crumbled city, I would think. So there’s disorder and you just need to calmly bring order to your own life and one day you won’t be in the crumbling city anymore but for now why have more problems, maybe? A lot of times when you’re unavailable it does kind of magnetize people to you more so maybe it’s good practice in only letting in the absolutely most worthy. (Again, usually not someone from the past.)
 

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I think that makes sense. I like the way you interpet that. Especially those past people! They’re from the crumbled city, I would think. So there’s disorder and you just need to calmly bring order to your own life and one day you won’t be in the crumbling city anymore but for now why have more problems, maybe? A lot of times when you’re unavailable it does kind of magnetize people to you more so maybe it’s good practice in only letting in the absolutely most worthy. (Again, usually not someone from the past.)
I suppose so, I can deal with it. It's just pretty contradictory to astrological readings so far too- or probably the feeling not wanting anything in terms of romance is the basis of Saturn and Venus in a hard aspect instead of no opportunities at all.
 

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I think that makes sense. I like the way you interpet that. Especially those past people! They’re from the crumbled city, I would think. So there’s disorder and you just need to calmly bring order to your own life and one day you won’t be in the crumbling city anymore but for now why have more problems, maybe? A lot of times when you’re unavailable it does kind of magnetize people to you more so maybe it’s good practice in only letting in the absolutely most worthy. (Again, usually not someone from the past.)
I'll definitely be careful not to rush the natural feeling of just wanting to bask on my own for a while because my hobbies are taking up a lot in my life besides work life and I figure I can just make connections with people through friendships instead and if they seem creepy, just disengage from them.
 

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Squares are often internal. They're an inside job. External factors will always be present but squares are about how you respond and synthesize things internally. Also, Saturn-Venus isn't all you have going on. You might not to focus on just one aspect... there's a larger set of cycles and transits impacting you that might not be immediately apparent through the lens of one transiting aspect.
 
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Is it too presumptuous of me to think that you really mean how much unwanted (negative, creepy, etc.) attention you can expect?

I see two things here:
26.6 reads, "Bearing the course of Heaven, your plea is heard."

And along with this you have 26's upper trigram Mountain changing to give you trigam Earth over the Creative in Hex. 11.

As with many responses from the Yi, yours reads 'if you do this (i.e. bear the course of heaven) THEN there will be a response - a.k.a. 'your plea is heard!'

I can see it saying: if you are clear, focused, and creative, then this can lead to good things! I imagine it can include pursuing your interests, AND that even if you get less-than-desirable attention, you will have the know-how to deal with it! (Ex. just saying 'no!' is an appropriate response I think.)

Best, D.
This really seems spot on here, I'll be mindful to definitely say no lol and I can work on my hobbies and network myself too if that's a creative way of seeing it.
 

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Squares are internal. They're an inside job. External factors will always be present but squares are about how you respond and synthesize things internally. Also, Saturn-Venus isn't all you have going on. I'm an astrologer so my suggestion would be not to focus on just one aspect... there's a larger set of cycles and transits impacting you that might not be immediately apparent through the lens of one transiting aspect.
yeah, i think I'm really fearful of Saturn after it passed my Mars with an opposition this year. Looking at my progressed charts Im just scared it may be another relative's death. My sun is in Libra in the 8th ruling the 8th house and progressed sun square Neptune goes exact when transit Saturn opposite Venus goes exact in February. That as well as progressed moon square Saturn. Already dealt with 2 relatives passing as of recently so that's making me already emotionally not there for much and the constant reminder of mortality is making life seem shorter so i don't want to deal with copious stuff from others. But I'll see what happens.
 

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