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This person is the kind to put a "fake front" and people please, leading to false appearances. Now, I'd say I have seen their "true self" but they still keep it hidden often. I realize now that's why the whole "partying of the veil" made a lot of sense to me. With enough perseverance, I will fully see them for them.How real is the connection?
22 - 23. Fantasy - Collapse
These hexagrams do seem to address your concern that you may be projecting more onto the friendship than is warranted. I wouldn't let it discourage you though. Just think of it as advice to not go too far off into imaginings but to build on what you know for sure is true. Or to put it another way, this moment of fantasy about your relationship wont last, there are things that cannot be 22.3 glossed over.
23. When illusion falls away reality becomes obvious.
So what is the reality? Perhaps that this person will always want lots of friends? Is there something you should learn from that? 23. advises broadening one's base. Like in order to be in sync with this woman perhaps you should broaden your awareness of your own circle of friends?
Interesting! This hexagram combination has is so broad meanings of interpration, this one makes a lot of sense too. Thank you for your help i really appreciate it!Poking around at this some more.
22.1 with the bit about abandoning the carriage and walking would reassure me that there is something solid and without pretense here, so that is encouraging. Occurs to me people don't go very fast when they are walking. A caution to take it slow?
22.3 with the rocks shimmering in the water could be describing a superficial show, but is that so bad? It is beautiful after all!
Then 23 with the mountain jutting straight up like it grew too fast and now with no broad base or history and is subject to sudden collapse.
So now I'm thinking the advice here is not so much seeing through a deception or getting over an infatuation, but more like advice to just take things slow - aim for outlasting all the others!
I don't feel it's about the person. You asked about the connection itself not the person and also Yi tells you what you need to know rather than giving you a breakdown of what the other person is. 23 is falling apart, disintegration, I find it hard for that to describe a person although no doubt it might in certain readings.This makes a lot of sense in relation to the person. They put on a very charming and loving front when in reality they struggle with a lot of shit inside. And I know this because they've told me and I've seen it in them.
"If this person comes around three times, then they might be one to part your veil and see the real you. If your friend were of the romantic type, this reading would suggest that you and they are potentially marrying material (driving three times around in a carriage), hence the parting of the veil (23)".
The added piquancy of things that are ending, which is why I was talking about autumn leaves. They are beautiful colours because life is being drawn away from them, they're dying. You might be able to access a memory of such a situation, I know I can, a situation or just a day or an event that felt special, magical, that actually wasn't a step on the way to anywhere else.Btw, what do you mean by hex 23 adding to the sense of magic rather than depleting it? I'm a little confused by that.
I'm not sure why you refer to 23 as standstill. It's not standstill, the mountain is eroding into the earth, actually deteriorating which is not the same thing as standstill.But this relationship is at a standstill 23.
Good point, maybe that's the 23 of it.In other words, the situation is far from ideal; that's my feeling when I read you because you seem very critical when you talk about this person "falsehood, false mask, lot of shit inside". In other words, you don't see that person with the eyes of love
Actually no, what I meant is that I am aware of their flaws. But the thing is that I love them regardless, despite all their personal burdens. I see the beauty and great potential in them but also aware of what's behind the mask they put on and why they wear it.In other words, the situation is far from ideal; that's my feeling when I read you because you seem very critical when you talk about this person "falsehood, false mask, lot of shit inside". In other words, you don't see that person with the eyes of love
But this relationship is at a standstill 23. So either you're on line 3 or line 1. But, in my opinion, you can't be in both. In other words, there may be a third person but the situation is 23 "separation". Two people are separated. In short, it's an enigma !
For the quote I took the question was "outcome of friendship" so it is somewhat different yet similar. You could say both questions imply the depth of the connection and where it's possibly heading.I don't feel it's about the person. You asked about the connection itself not the person and also Yi tells you what you need to know rather than giving you a breakdown of what the other person is. 23 is falling apart, disintegration, I find it hard for that to describe a person although no doubt it might in certain readings.
I feel in turning it into a description of the person you might possibly be avoiding the answer?
While I remember
This doesn't make any sense at all, at least not in this context. No idea where you got it from, it may possibly have made slightly more sense in context of the original thread.
The added piquancy of things that are ending, which is why I was talking about autumn leaves. They are beautiful colours because life is being drawn away from them, they're dying. You might be able to access a memory of such a situation, I know I can, a situation or just a day or an event that felt special, magical, that actually wasn't a step on the way to anywhere else.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).