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How should I act to soon be living alone again in a house in Ireland? Hex 26.5>9

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So, this is it. Current cycle finishes and I am forced to move back to the place I've left- and rent a room from a friend I was living with before. Neighbourhood is bad, she is living there with her boyfriend but I will be able to stay for up to 6 months... and recover my health from stress + save some money, hopefully. Then maybe look for something again... albeit I doubt the housing crisis will solve itself in 6 months, and I will probably need to live again with someone else. And I really really don't like this :( So I asked the Oracle the question above.
How should I act to soon be living alone again in a house in Ireland? Hex 26.5>9
It is interesting to get this pair, great accumulating and small accumulating. I wonder if the word ''soon'' in my question plays a role here, too. Because maybe its not possible anytime ''soon'' :/
Shaughnessy: The crying pig's teeth; auspicious.Cleary (1): The tusks of a gelded boar are auspicious.
No idea about the castrated boar with horns, but it says good fortune in the end. It also mentions about transforming crude energy to sublime. That's okay but what does it have to do with living alone/finding a flat ;)
 

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Hi MrKind ~ "How should I act to soon be living alone again in a house in Ireland? 26.5 to 9 ~ Practice good 'husbandry' of your pure energy (26) ~ refrain from storing-up anger/aggression (line 5) ~ occupy a small footprint and be easy to be around (9). While good results may not come as soon as you would like, the clouds promising good fortune are building-up! As you continue to look for a place of your own, keep an eye out for omens related to Boars. I hope this helps!
 

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In line 5 the threat goes out of a situation or is no longer felt as a threat.

I notice this aspect as clearly you do feel threatened by the situation, it feels dangerous to you, you speak of your well being, your health, being threatened.


I think it may be either that you allow that sense of threat to dissipate, so that you become unarmed so to speak and so hasten good fortune OR the threat just goes out of the situation anyway. A gelded boar is no longer a threat, the tusks are there but the reason to use them has gone.

So this may be advice for you on how to act but I also think it may be Yi leapfrogging that question to say the threat is already leaving the situation or will leave soon.
 

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Yes I noticed my negative narration towards this issue but I also tend to be realistic. I was very optimistic before and the crisis affected me no doubts... and its not going away soon. Hope I will be able to find a solution.
 

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MrKind

If I remember correctly you were looking for a flat but was having a difficult time and I thought at one point you found a flat but now it sounds like you get go back to your previous situation in search of a flat again. Your question was previously something to the effect of "how much longer must I remain at this impasse?"

Now the question is How should I act to soon be living alone again in a house in Ireland?

Hex 26.5>9

(Wilhem)
HEX 26 The Taming Power of the Great > HEX 9: The Taming Power of the Small
(Talk about the full spectrum)

HEX 26: The Taming Power of the Great
KEN-The Standing Still Mountain above CHIEN-The Creative Heaven
KEN who holds back CHIEN... which creates a build up of power/energy. It almost feels like a build up in frustration, intense emotion.

26.5 (Wilhelm)
It suggests to me a change in your attitude at the very base. I think this showed up in the previous hexagrams at some level 56.1.3 > 21

You get to really believe something is going to come your way. I recognize that I cannot fully appreciate your frustration. At the same time, great things happen when we change our minds about things. In part, finding gratitude for something that you have already and recognizing that "THIS TOO SHALL PASS".

(Barrett)
HEX 26: Great Taming
Hilary poses these questions when evaluating this hexagram:
How can you make the most of the potential?
How would it be to master this?

If we follow this logic, then it suggests what it would be like to master the frustration by replacing, sincerely, with possibility. How about making the most of the situation or making the most by finding gratitude and allow "the universe" to reflect it back.

In some way KEN = you, you are holding back the potential of what possible (CHEN).

26.5 (Barrett)
On the outside there the tusks. It is not the tusks that make a boar fight but his nature as a boar and not a gelded pig. Change the nature of your focus and what appears to be a difficult fight is only in it appearance difficult. in this way by redirecting your attention to a situation that has potential (i.e. being positive) allows ROOM for something better to BECOME possible.

It all depends on you, what you project...

(Wilhelm)
HEX 9: The Taming Power of the Small
SUN-The Gentle, Penetrating Wind above CHIEN-The Creative Heaven

What kind of attitude can you have so that your situation is better in your mind? If you do not like something you can always change your mind. Since it is not so easy to change you location; change your mind. Besides changing locations only makes here, now there and there, now here ..it does not change the underlying issue, problem, challenge, attitude.

(Barrett)
Small Taming
Key questions: What small thing can I work on today?, How can I cultivate a better terrain?

Make the small efforts to change your situation. Something as simple as letting go of disappointment and accepting that this is my situation right now but it is not forever can be a great relief.

Imagine in you mind what it would like if you got exactly what you want. Know that it will happen when it is the right time. Sometimes it takes a while but it happens as soon as you make the right amount of room for IT.

Letting go of empty feelings like frustration, whining, disappointment etc that are like carbohydrates on keto diet and replace them with emotions like joy, possibility, vision, intention which are like protein in a keto diet. Using this metaphor you will dropping unwanted belly fat in no time.
 

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Let me explain you my situation so its clear :)
1. I was looking for a flat since June as my landlords are selling the place
2. I found one, and paid the deposit and all but then found out that the place was heavily infested with carpet beetles - been through similar infestation (albeit MUCH smaller) in my CURRENT place and I know how tough it was to get rid of them, both mentally and physically so I decided that I deserve better and refused to move in there
3. I saw few other places but all were really bad. I was on the edge of exhaustion re physical and mental stress so I decided that I will move into a place from where I moved out 1 year earlier where I was living with my friend. She is not living there with her boyfriend [2 bed flat] but I will be able to stay for a couple of months in a small room.
4. My question relates to the future, as obviously my plan is to recover from stress and save more money - to be honest, I feel very hopeful about it, and I am at ease now and full of positivity as I always should be. (funnily enough, its rather my friend who has some concerns - they are both a bit toxic, but its a long story and I dont have any other friends here.. they are good people, albeit a bit lost)
5. " It all depends on you, what you project... "
Yes, but... ;) you see the frustration came from the fact that I put a LOT of effort, financially wise too, to find my current place. I was looking for 3 months. Going back and forth through the city on my bicycle to the viewings. It was very hard one year ago but I really believed that I will find something. Due to deepening housing crisis in Ireland it turned out I wont be able to stay at this place, so the whole story repeated after one year. Since I've left my home country I've move 14 [fourteen!] times. It's a bit tiring at this point. This year the situation is so bad, that at every viewing you got 20 people + queuing to see the place. It's bordering with impossible to rent on your own, and even finding a mere ROOM is a horror. I saw 18 places. Out of those 18, and my limited expectations, only 2-3 were suitable for living. It is really that bad. Just google Ireland housing crisis. And the other thing is that I put tons of positive affirmations towards me being able to stay in my current place for another year. And yet, it didn't worked out. I don't know why but I guess there's a bigger plan :p
 

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*She is not living there with her boyfriend - she is NOW living there - sorry ,a typo.
 

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I am fully dedicated to get the most of the situation I will be in. My only problem was the stress which was killing me. This was the only way to stop it. I also asked I ching, whether I should move in there (before asking I sort of already decided that I will do it)
Shall I move in for several months to the X & Y place
(X & Y are their names of course :) ) and I got
HEX 45 UC
Which is as always very spot on casting from the Oracle ;] and I am very positive about this result. I hope I will be able to positively influence them both when I will be there so that this whole arrangement will be of mutual benefit. My plan is to recover my health quickly, save some money and have a peaceful fun Christmas. Then I will resume looking after the new year. That's the goal.
 

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So, again - frustration came from the fact that there are bigger energies at play now, and no matter how hard I looked for a place I could not find any this time.. and that I lived very healthily as I had to save money to remain in my current place [it was expensive because Ireland doesnt have cheap places anymore] and at the end I've lost it all. Plus I almost killed my health. So I've made no mistakes, I did everything right and still lost. But that's not a weakness. That's life.
 

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Someone once said ..and this is one of the only things i like about Hilary Clinton...(paraphrase) "if it is not difficult it is not worth doing". My experience of you is that you really want a nice place for yourself and you're going through all this work to get the place that you want. Finding the best flat for you seems like a very important thing because it's about comfort and coming home. There is a lesson in here for you to learn. One such lesson Maybe if you change your mind about how you view it things will shift

The thing about I Ching is it's not there to predict the future but to do course correction towards the right path. So maybe another question would be who do I get to be in order to find the flat that I want?

If you notice you continually bump against this wall. You have to wonder what is the wall.

Speaking from experience, In the very recent past, I was very stuck in a situation that I felt as if I would never get out of. And I'm still recovering from that. I mean my situation was very devastating to me physically financially emotionally but in all that time I recognized that there was a reason why I was going through this and there were events set things in motion that I could not undo or stop. What i had to do was to continue to ride out the storm. For me I came out realizing just how arrogant I had been. I didn't recognize the person that I was. So it took this big devastating event to bring me back to reality. So there's purpose in everything and there's reasons why things happen.
 

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who do I get to be in order to find the flat that I want?If you notice you continually bump against this wall. You have to wonder what is the wall.
This is a very good suggestion and I will check it out :) I mean don't get me wrong, I was living in the UK in the past and since 2011 in Ireland, and those 14 times I had to move out were *mostly* when I was in my early 20s and still living the student life. Albeit yeah, I've moved a bit back and forth here in Ireland too. I do realize there's a reason to everything especially when we look back and able to reflect.
 

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MrKind

May I make another suggestion? Try interpreting it yourself. Knowing what you know, recognizing there is an underlying pattern or message that appears (at least to me) that resonates with each cast. If you get stuck there is, as you know, this entire really cool group... I would like to see what falls out for you.

Sylvia
 

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Haha I will �� to be honest I only post here castings that I have problems interpreting.. It's also a part of my learning curve :)
 

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I hope I did not insult you. I sometimes find my reading to myself are the most difficult ones too.
 

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Who do I get to be in order to get the flat I want? Hex 54.2>51
Interesting casting.
Siu: Devoted loyalty on the part of the man will compensate for many weaknesses on the part of his associates as well.Wing: The situation is disappointing. It is up to you, alone, to carry on the original vision. Such devotion and loyalty will ultimately bring progress. Wilhelm/Baynes: A one-eyed man who is able to see. The perseverance of a solitary man furthers.
From a different interpretation/translation: ''To be one-eyed is to concentrate on your own happiness and fulfillment without giving much thought to what others are doing.'' so it means that I should concentrate on whatever vision I had and do not quit it... maybe just preserver and stick to my values/daily rules until the way becomes clear. Weaknesses on the part of my associates - I see this as being forced to live again with those people, who are good but lost and mildly toxic. So I should rather inspire them to grow rather than mingle with them on their level. To be honest this is the only way it might work... otherwise I will go crazy :D
 

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MrKind,

The most important thing I see there is that ...IT IS UP TO YOU WHAT YOU DECIDE IS THE OUTCOME..powerful

Sylvia
 

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