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Hello people... Could you help me out with these castings, please?
First casting, I asked how should I behave with X? Because I have weird mixed feelings now, and I didnt see him or hear from him yet... last time it was 17.1.2, and just to be sure I did it again and it has changed, it is 18.2 (which becomes 52). The hexagram 18 speaks of fixing something (hmm I hope it is not to be taken literally), but line 2 says fix what was ruined by the mother, which means it is something I'm not involved.

Second casting, I asked how should I behave with Y (he's one of his siblings) instead: and it was 40.2.5 to 45. Is it a good casting? The 2 lines are favorable but if I remember well hex 40 is more about freeing from an heavy situation/person so I wouldn't say this for sure but...you will tell me. Line 2 says I catch three foxes and a golden arrow, very good. Line 5 says im sincere among mean people and that the tied man is free. Hmm... is it about trust? Or is it about cooperation? Like third people involved hmm...

Third casting, shoud I talk with Z person? He should not be related to the previous two ones, he knows them but when I see him he's alone or with an old lady. 61.4.5.6 to 54. Ouch, line 4 says the moon is almost full and a horse is lost, gosh it talks about this I guess, that I could have talked to him when he was alone.
Line 5 talks about being sincere and getting in contact with him. But nothing else should happen.
I dont understand what line 6 is warning me about, since line 5 was ok. The changing hex is 54, I sense he might be already engaged serious/loyal to his woman(?????).
 

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1) 18.2 my friend said the line says I could fix some things with time. No rush.
2) 40.2.5 my friend said these lines mean I should free myself from thinking he's mean and from some "paranoias"
 
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Curious, could you tell us what your current and hoped for relationships are with X, Y (the sibling), and Z? Is one or more of these a love interest, ex-lover, co-worker, boss, former boss ...?

When you talk about how you should 'behave' I think that this is about meeting other's expectations, so - if that is at all true - it makes me wonder what the nature of the relationships are. And if I'm wrong about that, I'm still curious.

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Curious, could you tell us what your current and hoped for relationships are with X, Y (the sibling), and Z? Is one or more of these a love interest, ex-lover, co-worker, boss, former boss ...?

When you talk about how you should 'behave' I think that this is about meeting other's expectations, so - if that is at all true - it makes me wonder what the nature of the relationships are. And if I'm wrong about that, I'm still curious.

Best, D
You're right... let's say it's about romance/friendship questions. I met X and Y during their work, I had bought something from them and currently we are acquaintances (since I told them which was my social media). Firstly it was Y to catch my attention, but then X fancied me first (I guess the sibling then kept distances 'cuz of the other one showing his interest on me first). And X was straightforward. I didn't chat before with them... I didn't keep contacts because I thought I would have seen them again (even though when I saw Y, he was alone and he recognized me after a little while. We just exchanged only a few words in which he mentioned his sibling...).
Z, instead, worked for this public event too, but we didn't talk (except the fact I had bought something from him also). I kinda liked him, except for something in his attitude&behaviour.

(*I dont have particular expectations (or I am censoring them), but I would like to free myself from a ''what to do'' feeling).
 
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I think 18.2 is pointing out what previous casting said (17.1.2 act spontaneous). I keep acting in a super restrained way, like I can feel his intentions and this freezes me for some subconscious reason...and i feel judged for my authentic self.
While... 40.2.5 this points out I should free myself from the thought this person is unreachable and not funny XD
 

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update: 61.4.5.6 to 54, well we were alone and I could have talked to him more but I missed this opportunity. So far I'm avoiding him because of external matters.
second update: 18.2 is easier to understand, basically I can't change my attitude!! I keep going there with the same ''good submissive girl'' attitude, while I feel the guy is just leading the script with his aims. He made a lot of questions but I answered in such an ordinary and passive manner that I felt tired of myself after that. I should have, at least, changed issue, but no, I answered about the questions of my age XD i mean is it nice to ask it to a girl? XD I will make another casting because he mentioned hanging out together but just him and I....thing i usually reject cuz my temper is more open to group meetings/parties or quick plans with someone else. I was sleeping I guess because the perfect answers /for me) came in my mind later. I firstly said yes it's fine, and that we will see eachother again soon (but who knows ahah), I didn't say ''with a friend'' or ''lets see'' (things I usually say to take things easy and in a friendly mood)to keep myself free.
 

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UPDATE:
how should I behave with Y: and it was 40.2.5 to 45
Well, if I could come back in the past, I would just stare at him without smiling and I would have not shared an ''hi''. Just like he treated me, from the start.
When it was time for departure he didn't even tell me bye enjoy xmas.
So rude.
 
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Thanks for the update. See how 40.2 mentions that he's chasing foxes in the field? Also, line 18.2 mentions "you can't divine". So you couldn't have known back then that he has a long-term girlfriend.
 

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Thanks for the update. See how 40.2 mentions that he's chasing foxes in the field? Also, line 18.2 mentions "you can't divine". So you couldn't have known back then that he has a long-term girlfriend.
61.4.5.6 to 54 is the one with the girlfriend
18.2 the one who invited me out to drink
40.2 chases 3 foxes in the field and obtains a yellow arrow, yeah
 

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