How should I communicate 9.1.5.6 to 46

[caliluck]

Hello.

I asked how should I communicate and got 9 with changes in 1,5,6 and turns into a 46. What does this mean? The person I'm asking about has left me perplex when it comes to our lack of communication. I can't tell if he's interested in me, or bad at communicating.

 

[rosada]

The image for 9 advises that the superior man communicates by his outward appearance or "What you see is what you get".

So...

Whether he's not interested or is simply a bad communicator of his interest, I feel you are being advised to take him at face value - meaning if he's not showing interest then assume he's not interested and don't try to look any deeper. Communicate with him on the level at which he is appearing.

 

[caliluck]

Thank you! I'm confused since my last question was "What can you tell me about my current situation with X" I got A 30 that changes into a 1. Changes at the 5 and 2. So I took this very positive. Then I asked how should I communicate with x. Do I just leave it alone? Allow him to reach out if interested then?

 

[rosada]

9. depicts a soul going down the road alone so I think you are being advised to strengthen your appearance of being single and unattached - such as when you talk to him do not make personal comments that would suggest you think you two have some special understanding.
I don't think you have to ignore him I do think you are wise to assume the I Ching is advising you to leave the romance potential alone until he communicates a stronger signal.

 

[caliluck]

Thank you very much!!!! I appreciate the insight.

 

[Bourbonist]

Hello.

I asked how should I communicate and got 9 with changes in 1,5,6 and turns into a 46. What does this mean? The person I'm asking about has left me perplex when it comes to our lack of communication. I can't tell if he's interested in me, or bad at communicating.

At first and as a former single (and pragmatic) woman, I was going to tell you that the lack of message is also a message.
But then I read your cast and in my opinion he seems to be bad at communicating.
I consulted Taoscopy for your reading and it says:


9 - Appearance

Something is not yet visible.


1 - One resists.

5 - One must help others more so that they accept to share.

6 - One wants to see the evidence that the other is patient and will take not even a modest initiative before committing oneself to return what the other has lost.

In the making

46 - Formation

One is guided until they reach knowledge.

 

[caliluck]

Thanks. I haven't seen or spoke to him since end of January. I actually been pretty busy and met someone new last week. I have to travel for work and will be gone for a week. I think I'm not going to reach out to
Him. I'm going to wait. When I asked if I should wait to see or contact him I got a 5 that turned into a 63.
I think I'll run into him towards the end of this month or in March if I attend an event we both have an interest in.