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It's a person i've been talking to online but suddenly he became a little bit stalking (the thing he said...) and quite obsessive (all the messages he sent).
I am anxious. I didn't block him for some fear and because i don't feel like doing it all of a sudden XD. But I deactivated the account temporarily because he kept messaging right when i opened the messages, but i couldn't ignore the messages for long because I hate to read notifications. I know it can't last forever, and in fact the second hex is 32.
The question is in the title and the answer was 62.2 !!! the line talks about ''She passes by her ancestor and then meets the ava. He does not reach the prince, but meets the official. No stain. - Pass by the ancestor and meet the ancestor, it means that during the flight it was only possible to reach the Yin part, so the union of the two principles is still far away. There is also talk of ancestors, disincarnate figures who are addressed for advice. Perhaps an ancient voice that you didn't want to believe.''
Is the deactivation wrong action?
 

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Perhaps 62.2 is describing this indirect way you are dealing with him now.
ah, right... I'd keep this way for a while, I need to detoxify from some social media xD
 
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guys... I hope he won't do any revenge or something like scratching the car lol...XD
 

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Sure hope not. If so, you’d have to involve police :oops:
ahah you're right. I just didn't expect it to end like this, and to receive those mean words. But maybe it was better to know how he can become, before we got involved in meeting eachother right?
 

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ahah you're right. I just didn't expect it to end like this, and to receive those mean words. But maybe it was better to know how he can become, before we got involved in meeting eachother right?
Absolutely. He sounds unstable and further communication will likely lead to trouble.
 

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Absolutely. He sounds unstable and further communication will likely lead to trouble.
that seems so.
The fact is that if someone deleted me from friends or blocked me or ignored me i'd be angry too and ask for explanations too. But here i only disappeared from the social media for a day and he was quick to assume i blocked him, maybe i should have told him, but yeah it seems like its not good to keep communication.
I tend to write a lot too but of course it's better to be cautious because if he gets angry that easily it's not good for me... as u said , it's better not to add further communication. at least before christmas u,u
 

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You were right about saying he was unstable and a bit insane. We didnt have a long time friendship or acquaintance after all... In addition to behaving that impulsively he blocked me (or disappeared too). Lol. Better sooner than later :D

So good advice 62.2 as acting busy and using an indirect way of dealing like not answering or disappearing totally for a while - 32
 
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Hello, I need to post an update: the guy wrote to me, I didn't open it because I had other problems but he wrote to me again and again o_O I dont know what he wrote@rosada @foxx777 I thought he forgot about me like all my previous guys did, so I also thought he would have been obsessed with another girl, but he didn't xD which should be a self-esteem boost if he wasn't acting like a very creepy person...
 
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Cheers, a guy similar to this one wrote me for 15 years. 15. Thanks God he lives in Australia. Every time he would trick me sounding normal and behaving like a friend, then the insanity would start again. I've been extremely silly and answered many times out of compassion, now I know the only way is no-contact. Since I consistently didn't reply he stopped.

Wishing you good luck!
 

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Cheers, a guy similar to this one wrote me for 15 years. 15. Thanks God he lives in Australia. Every time he would trick me sounding normal and behaving like a friend, then the insanity would start again. I've been extremely silly and answered many times out of compassion, now I know the only way is no-contact. Since I consistently didn't reply he stopped.

Wishing you good luck!
But I totally get u, when it starts with a mental feeling and u like him. Now I'm sorry to not reply but if he acts insane now, i wonder then when u meet him what he can do, or if i were his girlfriend...!
My friends use Tinder everyday and they hang out with strangers but never meet an insane one,they aren't afraid to experience things they desire. i dont know how they do that,while instead i never meet anybody and the few times I do this happens ahah. I take huge times in getting to know a person first just to build trust and getting out of my comfort zone (that's why guys meet other girls in the meantime).
I hope we can fix things in the future, starting from me meeting someone less insane!! (if it even exists lol)
Thanks for sharing ur experience, I will keep ignoring... Sounds like the best thing to do for my sake
 
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But I totally get u, when it starts with a mental feeling and u like him. Now I'm sorry to not reply but if he acts insane now, i wonder then when u meet him what he can do, or if i were his girlfriend...!
My friends use Tinder everyday and they hang out with strangers but never meet an insane one,they aren't afraid to experience things they desire. i dont know how they do that,while instead i never meet anybody and the few times I do this happens ahah. I take huge times in getting to know a person first just to build trust and getting out of my comfort zone (that's why guys meet other girls in the meantime).
I hope we can fix things in the future, starting from me meeting someone less insane!! (if it even exists lol)
Thanks for sharing ur experience, I will keep ignoring... Sounds like the best thing to do for my sake

Well, we are on the same boat then :) I tried the online dating thing just once in my life, last year, because my best friend told me she wasn't going to speak with me again if I didn't at least try. I did try. I lasted 3 weeks, then ran like hell. I'm not saying that it doesn't work, it just doesn't work for me.
And btw, statistics say that 80% of men on online dating platforms are either married or/and have a personality disorder, perhaps we are not the weird ones after all ;)

Listen, perhaps people here (my self included) are not the typical extroverted, social people who are definitely able to make life easier for themselves; perhaps we are prone to overthinking, or to take too long in making up our minds. But perhaps introspection also means that we know ourselves better and that we can value long term potential more accurately than our friends... or that we simply still think that when you are meant to meet someone, you will. Call it naive, but nothing can beat the magic of crossing paths with someone IRL and knowing from the first moment your eyes meet that you've met someone special. :)

Wishing you the very best, Cheers
 

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80% are married or crazy? How did they come up with that statistic? Sounds like the whole population!:ROFLMAO:
 

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It was a "cumulative" one :p Like, 60% in a committed relationship, 15% personality disorder, 3% real pshycopaths... I can't remember the exact percentages and they probably overlap ... I realize while I write this the overlap is not very reassuring LOL.
Sorry guys, I'll shut up, I just wanted to comfort Cheers, not scaring everybody else!
 
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Well, we are on the same boat then :) I tried the online dating thing just once in my life, last year, because my best friend told me she wasn't going to speak with me again if I didn't at least try. I did try. I lasted 3 weeks, then ran like hell. I'm not saying that it doesn't work, it just doesn't work for me.
And btw, statistics say that 80% of men on online dating platforms are either married or/and have a personality disorder, perhaps we are not the weird ones after all ;)

Listen, perhaps people here (my self included) are not the typical extroverted, social people who are definitely able to make life easier for themselves; perhaps we are prone to overthinking, or to take too long in making up our minds. But perhaps introspection also means that we know ourselves better and that we can value long term potential more accurately than our friends... or that we simply still think that when you are meant to meet someone, you will. Call it naive, but nothing can beat the magic of crossing paths with someone IRL and knowing from the first moment your eyes meet that you've met someone special. :)

Wishing you the very best, Cheers
I didn't experience it yet, when I say I'd like to catch up and boast about different guys also, I wished I would do that - but then I don't do that because something inside is always preventing me to do that (plus my 'insecurity' brings me to share this with other people, who are much protective and suggest me not to do anything). We are very different from others GreenHazel!!!!!! I agree with all u said. The people on dating apps have disorders or they are used to have sex rapidly, my friends don't have problems with that. My friends always say that when a boy is a bit of a player or just doesn't make efforts for you, and so on, it's because he's single and he's a male, but if you want to make out you can just do it and don't worry about it. But I'm single too and I would like to reason like a male, then. Instead, I dont act that way, I overthink a lot even when there's much chemistry and sexual desire. It's like I'd like to flirt with everyone only but not doing anything serious with all of them...>>

well, the guy stopped looking for me, for now.
 

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