How to behave with a a group of friends from my childhood? 30.1,2 - 50

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Hi readers of Yi

this time I need some help with a group of friends I have since I was a child (it's been ten years).

So, we're all almost 30s, we've changed a lot. But we maintained a true friendship, the group counts 13,14 people, and I don't have, obviously, the same friendship with everyone, but with 3,4 people yes. Anyway I like to see the others and I enjoy the company of the big group.

In the last years i was living abroad, we didn't cut the relations, but I slightly isolated myself and of course we couldn't meet each other regularly, even though we've been speaking every week. Since a couple of months I came back to my home country. I noticed that, perhaps due to covid 19, many of them are rellay nervous, anxious, sometimes slightly aggressive, but not the ones I particularly care for. Anyway, sometimes I had the impression some of them dislike me. I do not dislike anyone, I jest felt not comfortable with some people, also due to some facts.

I asked Yi "As sometimes I feel uncomfortable, How should I act with this group of friends?", I got 30.1.2 - 50.

Well, here there's fire, and clarity. On one hand it represents me (I'm Leo ), as I love being with other people, enjoying big companies, going out, manifesting" light" and lust for life on the other hand it could be a fire which burns things: do they feel burnt out from me maybe? Another interpretation (according to my question) would be: try to understand (make light on) if your impressions, your feelings are right or wrong.

Lines: the first reallt matches with my situation! I closed my self. Now it's time to be with others again, but without letting me guiding from my impressions. Line 2 seems positive aswell. And then 50.


What do you think?

Thank you all

 

[RemRem]

Hi again Clavdia!

Here's my take:

Your question: How should I act with this group of friends?
Reading: H30.1.2 to 50

1. Just connect with them (Inner Fire) if they are connected with you (Outer Fire) [Fire is connection and relationship]
2. Being clear why you connect with them helps (Clarity)
3. And give them the space to talk about what is valuable to them (Raising female cattle) [Let them graze in the green pasture]
4. Just like light, just be present with them, whatever concerns they have with them (illuminate all regions)
5. At first you'll feel uneasy, just allow it. That's OK (treading in confusion, honor it, not a mistake)
6. Just be there (like the sun) (Clear golden light)


Your presence is enough to change the way they behave (H50)

I hope this helps, Clavdia.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Hi again Clavdia!

Here's my take:

Your question: How should I act with this group of friends?
Reading: H30.1.2 to 50

1. Just connect with them (Inner Fire) if they are connected with you (Outer Fire) [Fire is connection and relationship]
2. Being clear why you connect with them helps (Clarity)
3. And give them the space to talk about what is valuable to them (Raising female cattle) [Let them graze in the green pasture]
4. Just like light, just be present with them, whatever concerns they have with them (illuminate all regions)
5. At first you'll feel uneasy, just allow it. That's OK (treading in confusion, honor it, not a mistake)
6. Just be there (like the sun) (Clear golden light)


Your presence is enough to change the way they behave (H50)

I hope this helps, Clavdia.

Wonderful as always!

Thank you so much

 

[moss elk]

I asked Yi "As sometimes I feel uncomfortable

Yi reflects that in 30.1
there are reasons for your discomfort
maybe some aren't maturing as much as others? You know why, or rather:
you sense something.
And Yi encourages you to respect that feeling you have.
Maybe there is a Viper or two among them?

 

[RemRem]

Cheers, Clavdia! Sending my good vibes for you and your friends.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Yi reflects that in 30.1
there are reasons for your discomfort
maybe some aren't maturing as much as others? You know why, or rather:
you sense something.
And Yi encourages you to respect that feeling you have.
Maybe there is a Viper or two among them?

Thank you, moss elk. Yes, I think Yi knows why I'm feeling not comfy, sometimes. It could be a maturity problem: We do have different lives and pasts. About the Viper: Yes, there's one! How do you think I should act?

 

[moss elk]

Viper...How do you think I should act?

I Dunno.
All depends on the species of viper,
dynamics of the situation, how invested you are, potency of their venom...etc
But in general, vipers are often very jealous types, quietly, sneakily poisoning....
Sometimes groups disperse and when some members regroup, the vipers may choose to group with those more like them.
I left a few friend groups throughout my life, always for my betterment, toward more health, happiness, & wellbeing.

It's a good question to pose to Yi.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

I Dunno.
All depends on the species of viper,
dynamics of the situation, how invested you are, potency of their venom...etc
But in general, vipers are often very jealous types, quietly, sneakily poisoning....
Sometimes groups disperse and when some members regroup, the vipers may choose to group with those more like them.
I left a few friend groups throughout my life, always for my betterment, toward more health, happiness, & wellbeing.

It's a good question to pose to Yi.

I agree with your description of these type of person.
They are extremely mean. I'd say one of them surely is Viper, the other on not, but they do are in accord together. I tend to ignore the Viper: he's a man, and he's very strange, sometimes he acts as a sweetheart, other times he's totally different, mean, cruel and egoistic. I try to take distance to him, but when he's sweet, it has happened that we spent sometimes together. But I know it's false.

There's a girl I'd not call a Viper, but a double face surely. We had some problems in our "friendship", we tried to solve them but actually it seems she has still something against me, even though she acts as a frienda. I know this and I try to take distance, not exchanging with her too much confidence. These are some reasons why I feel uncomfy...

Thank u very much

Clavidia