How to proceed: Hex 19 changing to Hex 7

[foreverthine]

I've been on here before about one particular relationship, which seems to have reached a position of nothingness.

I did a reading on how I should proceed in the situation and received Hex 19: Approach changing into Hex 7: Army.

I wasn't ready for things to end and I do feel a change in the air, but I'm not sure what the cast is telling me.

 

[foreverthine]

I also did a second reading on where the relationship stands now. I received Hex 58 changing into Hex 44. It could be that he just doesn't know what to do with me, as throughout our relationship he would randomly say: "What am I going to do with you?"

I also did a reading on the decisions he's made in regard to the relationship and received Hex 40 changing into 2. So, has he released the relationship or just the problems of the past? I'm very confused.

I know it's a lot to tackle, but any insights would be greatly appreciated.

 

[ace]

sorry for the delay. I read yours yesterday then got pulled away.

Question: how I should proceed in the situation?
Ans: 19. 1> 7

Lovely reading (they are all lovely readings, actually) for a situation where you suspect some action in the near future. I think the 19 is saying just that. An approach or nearing, or a drumroll to an approach. Your line is interesting though. I am using LISE's interpretation: "With affection nearing. Determination auspicious" is the title for 19.1. Wonderful! However, there seems to be a bit of a warning in there for you to be careful: " Every caring has to be with love. One action which is not right can mess up everything. One moment of forgetting can be a disaster..." (19.1). Thus, things can turn out very well **IF** you are careful.

LISE's 7.1 (which is the relating line) I think tells a little more about the background to this "approach". "One deviating action can mess up all. One shot fired at the wrong moment, one false note in a concert, one wrong decision of a surgeon. All the details have to be right, and then the whole is an organic whole and a structure with power." My intuition is that this might pertain to the past situation between you two, but I am not sure. Something went wrong. I might be cautious not to replicate this challenging feature in the future.

Both lines discuss something that was done/could be done that mess-up/destroy a potentially workable and successful situation. Thus, how should you proceed ... well, this partner left you :-( ... so proceeding with great care might be useful. Then, when the affectionate or careful approach occurs, it can be enjoyable by both parties. Perhaps, this care can plant seeds for future connections.

 

[foreverthine]

Thank you for your interpretation. He did leave me, based on actions that I displayed showing immaturity in the situation. I reacted from fear and from outcomes of past experiences that left me very vulnerable and exposed. So, I chose to control the outcome instead of work together to find a solution. I agree that when he does reach out, my response will have to be very careful and for the best of both of us. It's something I pray about often and will continue to ask God to help me respond with him as my guide. :bows:

 

[foreverthine]

I thought I'd update this post as well. He did contact me and we worked things out enough to move forward together for a while. However, in August we parted ways for good. Thank you for the insights. Ace: You were correct about the careful approach and it was enjoyed by both parties while it lasted.