How to proceed? Hexagram 20.5.6 --> 2

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A friend and I both want different things out of our companionship. I asked the Yi what's the best approach moving forward knowing this. I received 20.5.6 moving to 2. Anyone willing to help interpret? Thanks!

 

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It seems to advice you to self-reflect. Turn your observation skills inward, and be honest about your good and bad sides. If you are sincere of heart, then you will lead by example and experience good fortune. Separate the wheat from the chaff, see your life not in relation to your own ego based persona, but on the effect you have on people around you.


20.5: Keep your sense of perspective as you contemplate your life. What effect are you having on others? They need you to help and contribute with your originality. There are some things you must do as only you can do them. If this over-involves you in the lives of others, be patient and try to find what you need to do. Use all thoughts and energies to get and keep your life moving on a helpful and improving track.

You will gain an understanding of what the future holds for you by contemplating the effect of your life upon others. If your influence and example are good, then you are without blame.


20.6: Rare clarity comes now as you think deeply about your life. Beware of dangerous illusions and prejudices which could lead you onto an unproductive path. If you have a decision to make, step back and look at the whole flow of your life. A clear view of the past and mental picture of the future will suggest the best course for you to follow. Life is so much larger than the day-to-day ups and downs of a single life. Keep a good attitude for extra help.

Are your motives clear? Get the big picture.

Differentiate your true relationship to the matter at issue.

Hope that helps!

 

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Thank you for your interpretation and the care you placed into it. I am actively heeding your advice.