Hx 44 twice w regard to same person - a negative??

[elph]

<FONT COLOR="0000ff">First of all just want to say hello again to everyone. I've been away from both the board and the Yi for a while recently because certain things arose in my life that have kept me preoccupied and distracted. Hopefully though this is a more permanent return.

The issue i need your advice on is the second occurance of Hx 44 with regard to the same female. There seems a definate warning in the Hx against a meeting with this woman and this i have come to understand, is the second appearance of this Hx affirming the Yi's warning?. What's got me stumped though is this talk of wrapped melons dropping from heaven. The actual reading was Hx44.3.5 in response to my asking if we will ever be together in the future and so such things as "the will does not give up what has been ordained" and this is not contrived but is decreed by fate" seems to imply something positive for the future while the reccurence of my walking with no skin on my thighs seems to imply my continual learning of a lesson.

Am i any where near the mark on this one? As always your help would be gratefully received.

(BTW the initial appearance of 44 with regard to this person was 44.2.3.6 if thats any help to you)</FONT>

 

[stuart]

I fell that line 5. of 44 refers to respect from a strong lady.Have you held back or are you holding back. If you are this would suggest the right way for success in this atraction!.

 

[elph]

<FONT COLOR="0000ff">Thank you for your response Stuart,

This definately refers to a strong lady, that is one thing i am ultimately certain on! My interest is in the fact that the Hx has occured twice with regard to the same person but with some change to it. The situation with this person has also changed but i am unsure as to how the change in the Hx refers to the change in the situation.

I am very sure that there has been no holding back on my behalf in this situation, if anything it is the exact opposite. Perhaps for the first time in my life i certain to my very core of what this person means for me and i have completely opened myself and made sure she knows my thoughts and feelings with regard to what i believe we make as a pair.

Once again thank you for your help and i welcome any further insight.</FONT>

 

[stuart]

It looks good for the future.continue on your course whatever attraction you have will eventually bear fruit.

 

[jte]

Some thoughts -

44.5 essentially indicates that you don't need to take any special action for a good outcome to result - all you need to do is "play it cool".

Keep in mind though that, "good" is in the eye of the beholder - it might mean you get together with her, it might mean you don't but that you and her sister hit it off, then again it might mean that she hooks up with someone else but buys you a winning lottery ticket for your birthday present... My point being that you should be prepared and on the watch for the good outcome, but shouldn't think that it'll necessarily be what you expect (although it might).

I'm going to guess that 44.3 refers to some hesitation/shyness resulting from the emotional pain that necessarily comes with the ebb and flow of love relationships. However, it seems you've gotten past that.

Of course it might be future emotional pain and some lessons learned (in the future). From what you've written above it sounds like you have some genuine attraction for this woman. That's fine but the nature of the hex and the judgement suggest that maybe you shouldn't count on your relationship with this woman (should it develop) on being a permanent one.

Just because you don't marry doesn't mean you can't... erm, dally. But the more emotionally attached you are to someone, the more it eventually hurts if they feel the need to move on. (And of course, if they move on, you heal up and sooner or later move on, too.)

My 2 cents, hope it helps...

- Jeff

 

[elph]

<FONT COLOR="0000ff">Hello there again,

Just wanted to thankyou for your input and advice. I am very sorry that i havent done so earlier - i did not want to seem rude, but i have been working away from home and so unable to get the time to post back.

Your readings on the hx do seem to support and expand on what i felt about it. Hopefully this is a good sign. There is alot of history to this relationship and the problem is that at the moment it is just history. However it seems that the future may be brighter, and more than anything i hope that it is.

Again thankyou for your help</FONT>

 

[jte]

You're welcome Good luck and have fun...

- Jeff