Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
8. Seeking Union
"Seeking Union" is about seeking the right sort of union. Your aim here is to have an appropriate relationship with this man.
15.3
"The superior man carries things to conclusion" As he did not immediately conclude his relationship with his girlfriend then you must consider this flirtation concluded.
15.4
"Not boosting of one's wealth before one's neighbor. It is favorable to attack with force. Nothing that would not further."
"Not boosting of one's wealth before one's neighbor." =
Don't ever refer to the slip up that happened between the two of you.
"It is favorable to attack with force. " =
Make a strong show of treating him as simply a fellow employee (if he says anything flirty just roll your eyes like, "omg, I can't believe we ever did such stupid stuff.")
"Nothing that would not further" =
Then no problem will come from this incident and your friendship may even be strengthened.
Working through it. Painful. I imagine I will deal with tbe pain for a while. Setting my path in another direction is a solid position but painful. Thank ypu, Trojina.
Crossed posts I just posted another fuller post.
So any further tboughts, Rosada?Thanks for catching that Trojina. Fixed now.
Struggling.The reading is still the same, I had just written 15.4 when I meant 15.5.
Awe, thank you. It sits there like something that will not go away. Trying to stay busy, meditate, read. The moving on does not come easily. I posted that I asked how to deal with tbis compulsion or fantisizing. Iching gave me 8 with no changing lines. I think I need a project. We do not work together until Sunday. I have an intentional group on Sunday earlier that should help. Also online church type thing. I am learning the practices of Buddism and follow the Christian way as much as I can. Christ in everything. I use Center Prayer.Maybe ask the I Ching for advice on how to deal with this. Get up and move around! Listen to songs with lyrics that plant positive suggestions like "I Will Survive"! Or if it's really bad listen to Walt Disney's "It's a Small World" - that will infect your brain for a couple of hours but at least you wont be thinking about you know who!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).