I know he wants me but what holds him back?

[justa]

Hello Lovely People,

I am confused and a bit sad. My crush and I saw each other last night, he gave me a lift home but someone else muscled in the car so we did not get a chance to speak alone (again) Now, I have followed the advice the oracle has previously given me on this ,that I must do nothing and he will come to me when he is ready, and subtle, tiny shifts have occured. There really was an amazing sexual tension between us that I sensed, but a bit worried about delusion I consulted asking: 'How did J... respond to my physical presence tonight?'
I recieved 51 lines3/4/6 changing to 22. I take this that I am right about the sexual tension, but am unsure of the lines, particularly 6 as this seems to suggest other people are interested in what goes on between us? And 22, is about what? superfical beauty? no substance?
I texted a friendly text today thanking him for the lift home etc and he replied just as friendly. I consulted 'What emotions did my txt cause J... to feel?'
I recieved 49 lines2/3/5/6 changing to 38. Yikes!!! not sure about this at all, seems pretty dire and a little creepy?
Later, I asked in light of how he responds to my physical presence 'What is holding J... back from approaching me romantically?' and I recieved 20 lines2/3 changing to 57. Is this good? He's thinking about it, right? But it talks about spying and stuff going on behind the scenes I don't know about?
Please help I can't work this out on my own!

Thank you
Justa xxx

 

[willowfox]

'How did J... respond to my physical presence tonight?'

I received 51 lines3/4/6 changing to 22.

It shows some arousing here which was unfortunately dampened by outside influences, your passenger, so he had to be very discreet.

 

[willowfox]

'What is holding J... back from approaching me romantically?'

and I received 20 lines2/3 changing to 57.

He is certainly watching and just cannot make up his mind whether to go for it or not, I think his history is what is holding him up here. He really needs to loosen up.

 

[proserpine]

Justa I have a suggestion.try asking the I Ching about what you want from this fellow.And/or try asking how to get what you would like to happen.It's a little easier to interpret because if it's his feleings you're asking about you may or may not get an answer that is so clear.Also, for all youknow, this man may not even know for sure what he feels yet.
hexagram 20 lines 2 &3 would suggest that you only see a little of what is happening and so you musn't assume.And that as far as what you do know about your self you can make your own decisions here.#57 is again, about things moving slowly but surely.But I know that one also to refer to things that we sense even if we can't be certain in any logical way.
I think you basically know what you sense and feel--yet should not base too much on what you think*he* thinks, but be yourself, as much as that may not sound exciting it is a good thing.
Btw, #49 refers to changes, big changes--are you by any chance hoping that big changes will happen and quickly?becuase if so, it's suggesting that real changes take time, and don't happen overnight--but-that you will see in time, and when you know , there will be no doubt.

 

[justa]

Thanks to you both...

Thank you so much Willow fox and thank you also Proserpine.
I will try consulting in this way later:bows: