I know its weird

[nykkic]

... I broke up with my ex in early October and he is in a relationship again ..with a much older woman whom he makes buy him presents all the time (yes its weird .. he was never like his before) ... he never posts photos with her in his facebook like he did with me all the time ... So I was wondering and asked: Does he still love me?

...yes I wanted to know if HE still loves me

and he answer was 56.4

I have no idea what to make of this .. please help !!! because 56.4 doesnt describe my life situation


love to all of you
Nykki

 

[Windrell]

Nikki's, it's very easy!
I Ching does not tell you anything about loving.
Your ex, in his life-journey, he has stopped in his present relationship with this older than him woman.
He has found good financial status and he has an "axe"/he is in control over her, but his heart is not happy/satisfied.
That's all IChing tells you.
In my opinion, a person who acts like that is incapable of being in love.
Delete him!

 

[nykkic]

what you says makes very much sense Windrell .. that older woman is really wealthy and he lets her buy expensive things for him ... its so weird .. so confusing .. he was never like this before !!!!

 

[Tim K]

I think it says he never really loved you anyway, kinda what Windrell said, a rather shallow person.
He likes you but in his heart there is no real joy/love.

 

[nykkic]

he was never like that with me like he is with that woman now ...
....but your view is interesting too ashteroid... maybe with me it was not such a love either ..

 

[mirian]

Hi nykkic,

I know you're trying to make sense of the whole thing, but it's all down to your ex not having found his place in life yet. He's represented by 56.4, someone in a temporary position, a wanderer, a traveller, whatever you want to call him. Yes, he currently has some sort of stability, either because she's got money, or is older, it doesn't matter, he's not settled. This has nothing to do with love, either towards you or her, this is about himself. So let him do his wandering job

 

[nykkic]

Dear Miriam you are absolutely right too .. and I am doing that .. I let him wander .. it is this change of character that I see that is confusing me .. I don't know him anymore .. he has become so different as a person

 

[mirian]

Based on your reading I'm not sure if he's changed that much or if you're now seeing a bit more of what he's really like. But as I said, it doesn't matter, you need to stop this mental exercise and move on with your life. All the best for you :bows:

 

[nykkic]

.. he truly never was like this before... he never asked anything from me nor did he every try to use me like he is using this elderly woman .. !! but yes dear you are right .. HIS life.. HIS character

... thank you for your lovely wishes xoxo