I'm totally new!!

[nikki]

Hello, I'm very excited as this is my first post here....
I have some doubts about this guy I met 1 month ago at first he seemed involved with me, he said I was a special person fel very well with me and so on...the first hexagrams I had after I met him were:
how this relationship is going to develop?
26 changing line 5,6 going 5

then how is he going to feel about me?
7 changin line 2 going 2
Anyway we went out quite a few times toghether...nothing happened beteewn us but we were good toghether.
Then he desappeared 2 week ago, he said he would call but nothing....
is it stopped here or is there still hope to develop a relationship wiht him?
24 line 1 and 5 changin into 8

What do you think?? maybe some hope for me?
thanks for your help and sorry for my bad english

 

[yxeli]

Hi Nikki, welcome

how this relationship is going to develop?
26 changing line 5,6 going 5

hexagram 26 to 5 seems like its about approaching this relationship in a traditional sense, with a specific focus on how to socially interact with eachtoher. I think this first reading is about reaching a balance about how you interact with this person on a social level, and putting limits on too much excessive 'performing' socially as a couple. Its positive though as with these restraints comes clarity and waiting and serving eachother the best way you can. I would say limit your passion in public with this person. Keep it traditional.

then how is he going to feel about me?
7 changin line 2 going 2

This is very positive and says that he does have strong feelings for you, but you must keep your ego in check. This line is very much about your relationship with others, not just this one love interest. It warns that you must treat everyone equally and with respect.

is it stopped here or is there still hope to develop a relationship wiht him?
24 line 1 and 5 changin into 8

Have you done something wrong with this relationship? Have you had an argument with this person? are you stubbornly not apologising for something you know you did wrong? These lines indicate that you have, and you need to face up to these mistakes you have made. If you recognise your wrongdoing, and apologise, then there is a chance that you may still have a future with this person.

If you havent done anything worng, i think the yi might be saying that there is some unchecked part of your personality that is recurring, and you need to think over your part in this relationship to understand it.


hope this helps
Yxx

 

[tifa]

Hex 7.2 suggests there is a lack of communication. Are you not participating enough during the conversations? not playing an active role when you guys were spending time together?

Hex 24.1.5>8 : he will reconnect with you again. However, when these two lines are moving, it does indicate that you are not the only flower in his heart.

Hope it helps
T

P.S: your english is perfectly fine.

 

[nikki]

Thank you very much for your answers,
I'm so glad!!
A friend of mine introduced me to the iching and I really enjoy reading the words of wisdom of iching text, but when it comes to interpreting my own readings i dont have a clue as im too emotionally involved and I try to interpret it only my way.
Anyway, to answer to your posts We didnt have any arguments or similar, we were very much atracted to each other but we decided to go slowly and take it easy. anyway we went out many times after, but always with friends. And nothing intimate both in communication and physically happened. Until he stopped calling me...but no arguments or reproach or similar. So is it just another guy disappearing? or he just need time? or Am I one of the many "Flowers" in his heart??
Thank you