(Important) How is D's safety against her father?

[shaoqi]

Im really concerned with this situation!

Hex 52 ---> Hex 12
moving lines = 3,4,5

Moving line 3 scares me, "situation trouble, injured spinal muscles, no peace.

And also the relating hex states "the great is departing, the little arriving."


Ok being extremely concerned I asked, What will provide D's safety(from her father)

I got Hex 58 ---> Hex 48
moving lines = 1,3,4

The primary hex is Joyful but
moving line 3 indicates "misfortune, not in the proper place"

an the relating hex is "Replenishing" (the well)

I dont understand what advice the IChing is trying to give me to help my girlfriend out, I dont know what she can do.

Can anyone please help me out with this reading!!

Maybe I can ask IChing another question about this situation, any ideas?

thx...shaolin

 

[shaoqi]

wondering why noone helped me out on this reading.
D's father is very abusive and she's scared for her life, this is the most important question I've ever posted on here, please someone help me out on this one.


thank you...shaolin

 

[shaoqi]

Ok to understand this situation more clearly. She is 17 years old(still a minor untill shes 18 in March). Currently living with her parents. She currently has no job, this January she starts college and has plans on becomeing a lawyer. She doesn't have a car as of yet. We're located in Florida (USA), Tampa Area.

Her father is extremely abusive to her and treats her as if he truely hates her, he even tells me(as well as her) she means nothing to him an that he will kill her. She is an angel, does nothing wrong but this man is sick. She originally called me very worried an ask me if I can do her a favor and ask, "will my father kill me"?
Because she his truely scared for her life. I just changed the question around to fit better an figured you would get the point but now this is the whole situation. Please give your help.

Thanks...shaolin

 

[Sparhawk]

Hi Shaolin,

With what you are saying here you are starting to creep me out. If I may ask, how old are you?

The only reason I ask this is that if you are an adult you should be suggesting to this child to run to the nearest Department of Human Services office. Is she shows signs of abuse, they will take care of her. She should not and cannot live in fear for her life.

For this kind of clear cut situations there is no need for the Yi. Common sense is more than enough. Don't waste time on this and have your friend snap out of that situation before things get out of hand.

I wish the best for you and your friend.

Luis

 

[candid]

Shoaqi,

I have to agree with Luis.

Interpreting a question as grave as this can too easily lead to wrong application and understanding, and if the matter is as you describe it, its just too important to do anything but advise her to take action, ASAP.

If she's in this kind of real danger, she needs to get out!

C

 

[shaoqi]

Thanks for imput, im 20 years old an her boyfirend.

I understand she needs help, she's been in an out of shelters, same thing happens everytime, her pops never gets in trouble an she ends up back in the same house(hellhole).

She cant afford her own place at the moment an she has noone to live with. I still live with my parents at the moment also so she cant live with me. Thats why soon when she's 18 i want to get my own plave with her but untill then I dont know what she can do to avoid conflict with her father. An thats why im asking the Yi for advice on how she can remain safe untill then.

1...shaolin

 

[cheiron]

Dear Shaolin

I wish this were in the UK as I could be of practical help? You see this is some of what our team deal with as daily fare.

Sadly I do not know the system over there and so some of this may be inappropriate.

Someone is in danger?

Rule 1: Get active!

Even if she is not killed or injured her fear is unacceptable.

Telephone around, get advice? are there any Women?s Aid resources? Is there some agency who provide to protect young women?

Have you searched the Web for possible local helpful contacts?

In London resources are short? everywhere is full? but someone hammering away on the phone until they find an informed person who can direct them to resources usually gets there.

I wish you and your friend well.

--Kevin

 

[shaoqi]

Kevin thanks for the post,

I fowared this post to her email for her to read it an i told her i agree 100% that no human being deserves to live in fear an that its unexceptable. I let her know im willing to do whateva it takes to solve this problem an if she's with me we'll find a way.

Thanks everyone, I really appreciate it.

1 Luv...shaolin

 

[cheiron]

Hi Shaolin

Great?.

Sometimes it is better for someone else to do it as the person suffering often struggles to find the patience and energy to keep going? It's great you can do it for her (if she chooses.)

Some tips? When doing repetitive phoning it is really useful to be able to give a very short presentation:

?I am x calling on behalf of x who is a young woman aged x
She has suffered repeated x from her father.
He has a history of x
She is in fear of x
There appears to be a high likelihood that this could happen? I really think she is in danger.
Please can you advise me or point me toward some help.?

Be ready to say this many, many times? be patient and answer their questions? My experience is that sooner or later you find the person who says? try calling this number? after 6 of those, one of the numbers sorts it out.

It takes energy and patience?. and tenacity? jump the hoops!

Sorry if this is obvious.

Sincerely wishing you well

--Kevin

 

[shaoqi]

I talked with her an we both agreed she must leave the house, now we only have to figure out where to go, I suggested another family member.

Is the answer to D's problem to move in with another family member?

I got Hex 12 ---> Hex 8
Moving= lines 4 & 6.

The answer is so clear and right on the money.

Hex 12 was the relating hex remember when i first aksed, "how is D's safety against her father?". So the Yi is showing us that situation to be present. "The great is departing; the little arriving. (very bad)

moving lines are clearly stating that moving in with another family member is the answer.

4. Its the will of heaven. No fault. Like minds cling together and share the blessing.

6. First hinderance, afterward joy.

Relating Hex is a truely great one "Union"

"seeking union. good fortune."

this hex states people living together should luv an care of eachother an they will become really close.

To me the answer is so clear an shows the situation crystal clear.

This reading is definetly suggesting and saying to move in with another family member.

How great the Yi Jing is!

1...shaolin