Impossible?

[Mayorka]

So many questions to Iching and I feel confused.. Sometimes I feel hopeful about X and sometimes I don't..
Is it impossible to have a relationship with A?

57.1.4.5 >14
Confusion, advance and retreat, what I feel exactly..I would say about line 4 that shows games between us. line 5 shows an end or a conclusion or a change to the situation..?
Hex 14 looks very auspicious. Like you got it..?

I would appreciate any interpretations!

 

[Matali]

Hello,
First of all, you say that you ask Iching so many questions and you feel confused. But in fact, it is the reality that is confused for you because you like this man and nothing happens between the two of you. You like him because he is seductive, ok. For now, that is the only reality.

57.1.4.5 – 14: my hypothesis is that a situation "57 gently penetrating" is taking place in his life. There is a hunter at line 4 and I think it is him with his conquests !
Line 1 an indecision, and line 5 a new direction.
Hexagram 14 is not easy to translate either, because behind the "great measure" and the sublime success, there is a person who sees people coming to him thanks, in particular, to his sweetness (line 5 in this place). I think this man attracts women!

I don't know if you really want to know him a little better, but you could offer him to have lunch together, to get out of your confused question, to come back to the reality... What if you ask Iching "is it a good idea to offer him lunch together"?

 

[Mayorka]

Hello,
First of all, you say that you ask Iching so many questions and you feel confused. But in fact, it is the reality that is confused for you because you like this man and nothing happens between the two of you. You like him because he is seductive, ok. For now, that is the only reality.

57.1.4.5 – 14: my hypothesis is that a situation "57 gently penetrating" is taking place in his life. There is a hunter at line 4 and I think it is him with his conquests !
Line 1 an indecision, and line 5 a new direction.
Hexagram 14 is not easy to translate either, because behind the "great measure" and the sublime success, there is a person who sees people coming to him thanks, in particular, to his sweetness (line 5 in this place). I think this man attracts women!

I don't know if you really want to know him a little better, but you could offer him to have lunch together, to get out of your confused question, to come back to the reality... What if you ask Iching "is it a good idea to offer him lunch together"?

Thank you matali for your reply. I don't think he is the kind of man that attracts a lot of women. Actually, he is workaholic person and he has already a relationship.. Moreover, I wouldn't say he is a 'handsome' man. You see when I first met him I didn't like him.. but then we started our profesional relationship and his intelligence and honesty makes me want him.. I strongly believe he likes me too because of i ching answers.
I have asked iching what should I do in order to make a relationship with him..
For example:
How could I have a relationship with him? HEX 62.
Do not fly high... stay low..
More answers: 48.2 / 5 , 39.1 /63 etc
It seems that I can't do anything because he is already with sb else...

 

[Matali]

In fact, since you focus on him and now you know that he is in a relationship with another woman, so it's very clear... The suggestion to have lunch with him was more to see him differently, as a co-worker, to get rid of this obsession by staying in reality. You talk about his honesty and intelligence, I think it's hexagram 14. So, the best is to find another smart but single man

 

[Mayorka]

I am not the type of woman who enters between a couple. That's why I am not making any move. But I would like to know if there is any hope in case he breaks up..

 

[Matali]

I didn't say this for you interfere between him and his wife (not at all, of course) : your relationship is professional. A lunch or a coffee was just an idea to know him a little better, to be in reality and get out of the assumptions, the obsession ... I have the impression that you idealizing him because deep down, you do not know him. 57.4 speaks of a person who hunts and catch several kinds of game : he has a wife but in my opinion, there are others...