In Korea: Hex 39 changing to 31 any help?

[sunnyroad]

Hi all! I'm pretty new to this and have been discovering the Yin over the past few months,currently i am in south korea teaching and have been away for almost 8 months i finish here in Feby

basically there are some issues at school and i live a lonely life, i work till 6 get home, run, make food, sleep, over and over, weekends are good though however there are some money issues at school as the owner has not paid up our pension and my co-workers and i are worried she will not pay our pension in the end among other things
as well today i had a predator following me and it left me really drained, basically i am super tired


as well there is a man i love and always think about, who is back home and he has asked me to come (i have stayed because the money is good and i could save more, IF she pays our pension and bonus)

i asked "what is going on?" I got hex 39 with changing line 4 into hexa 31

any suggestions? if i leave it would be in Jan with only two months left to fulfill the contract, is that foolish?

Thank you so much!! :bows:

 

[precision grace]

"What is going on" is that you have come to the group (clarity) to seek answers to your question. As far as I can see that's what 39.4 is about.

39.4 is about getting help, joining with others to solve a problem, or at least to make the task less onerous because sometimes two heads are better than one, that type of thing. Maybe the hexagram is trying to tell you that you don't need to do this alone (i.e. try and figure out everything alone or try and solve all your problems alone).

Why are you considering leaving with only two months left on the contract? is it because these other issues at work - perhaps they make it seem like it's not worth it to stick out to the end? What is it that you want to do?

 

[sunnyroad]

Thanks for the reply! Yes we are going to get together on the 29th for a big meeting and I will mention everything then and see what the owner says. Basically none of the teachers are very happy, its a very small school which is one of the issues. However I DO want to stick it out and save the extra money because I have future plans for that like going elsewhere after I return home and to continue my studies. I am only 25.

The problem being is that i worry about losing this guy who is back home, so that's why i keep considering going back early.....but if its meant to be then it will?

I do tarot and it gives me mixed readings sometimes, however tarot is also very immediate and reveals the moment.

I just was curios as to Hexagram 31 because it signifies affection and that a reunion will be beneficial to both parties....what do u think on that front?

Thanks again!! :bows:

 

[sunnyroad]

i am also confused because does not hexagram 39.4 mean to go?

he is waiting for his citizenship as well and once he has it his plan is to go to australia. since i have been here he has begged me to come back and that we could make a plan together to go there. but we talked yesterday and now he doesnt really want to talk about how much we miss each other or stuff like that. he says wait till i get back home.. i;m just confused really.

as well i have a ticket to thailand for christmas so i cannot quit now..