Influence on relationship? 47.4.5>7

[gnichi]

Dear all,
Its been a while. Hope you are well.
I have a question about hex 47... I had a fight with my boyfriend last night, about the same old issue... his living situation. The background is, that we have a very warm and affectionate relationship, but the practical circumstances are a constant problem. He says he wants to solve it, but things are taking so long, and still no changes. I asked: How will this discussion influence our relationship?
Answer: 47.4.5>7
Interestingly, I asked a week ago, if the situation would be solved during next year?, and I got 47.4>29
I can totally relate to 47.4, about the slow pace. I have more difficulties with 47.5. And what about the relating hex 7? Does it simply reflect our fight yesterday?
I would be very grateful for your help!
Best wishes

 

[scarlett3page]

Because you cannot change the situation, to me 47.5 suggests acceptance. You feel confined by these circumstances but there's always an opportunity to learn from oppressive circumstances. Perhaps 7 as the relating hexagram suggests organizing your energy towards this & putting it into the relationship/acceptance of the circumstances for now. This is certaintly a difficult, spiritual lesson.

 

[gnichi]

Thank you for your reply!
Yes I do feel confined, and oppressed by the situation, and I try to focus on all the positive aspects of our relationship. Thank you for your interpretation, and for taking the time.
Best wishes