Interpreting multiple readings as a whole

[lyrandra]

Hi,

I asked a few questions and I'm trying to make sense of everything as a whole:

1. How will X act with me if I invite him to have lunch with me? 39.2.3.5 > 7
2. How will X feel about me if I invite him to have lunch with me? 35 > 35
3. How will the situation evolve if I invite X to have lunch with me? 25.3 > 13
4. What can I do to finally have conversation face to face with X? 61.2 > 42

In terms of questions 1, 2, 3:
The invidiual answers are relatively clear. However, they seem contradictary as a whole. It seems he won't act too well towards me if I invite him to have lunch with me. However, I don't see answers #2 and #3 as negative as answer #1. How should I make sense of the situation with these three answers?

In terms of question 4:
Does this mean I should speak and simply tell him that I want to talk to him face to face? Because that's where I got the idea of having lunch with him and that's where I thought maybe I should invite him to have lunch with me. However, with the answers I got from questions 1, 2, 3, I'm not sure it is a good idea I do so. So, if can't invite him to have lunch, does it mean I can only tell him I'd like to be able to sit face to face with him and talk?

Thanks for your time. It's really appreciated.
Lyrandra

 

[willowfox]

1. How will X act with me if I invite him to have lunch with me? 39.2.3.5 > 7 I think that he will firmly turn down your offer.

2. How will X feel about me if I invite him to have lunch with me? 35 > 35 It suggests that he feels that you are trying to be the boss of the show.

3. How will the situation evolve if I invite X to have lunch with me? 25.3 > 13 Line 25.3 suggests misfortune will come of it and he will distance himself even further away from you.

4. What can I do to finally have conversation face to face with X? 61.2 > 42 Line 61.2 is about communications, so it suggests that you try and talk with him on the phone.

 

[lyrandra]

Thank you Willowfox.
I'll forget about having lunch with him then!