is 41.5 a good line?

[lilo]

Hello,
Need help here people.
I have misread many advices given by the Yi in times when I really needed relationships or work opportunities to work. And ended up losing a great deal of time.

Here is a new story.
[Little background, I'm a single mom to a 9 year old, separated little over a year ago, working in a full time job in IT]
So, I happened to work with this colleague of mine on a project; he worked in another city with same company so even though I knew he existed I never got to know him better. During the project we spent a lot of time together and shared many things. I realised he wasn't happy with the job so I pushed him to find new opportunities, and now he's joining a new place, also shifting to my city. My daughter is fond of him and he's really nice with her.

So.. we share good understanding, give space to each other, and so far we are just good friends. Though I do feel more than that for him. I'm not sure what he feels. I think he too likes me, but not to the extent where he would take drastic decisions- in my country seeing an older woman, with a child is such a blunder; he's single and way to younger to me.

Recently I felt he has been keeping a distance. I understand, for him this is a difficult choice.. Or may be he doesn't even like me, and wants to keep a distance now in fear that now that we are in the same city, we shouldn't come closer?
I don't want to go against the flow. If something has to work it will, is what I've come to believe now.

I asked Yi
what should I do? say goodbye or keep hoping?
Yi Gave me 41.2.5 > 42
I think the reading is positive.
41.5 is a line that has come repeatedly while doing readings about him.
I do read the line positively, but is it really good for a relationship?

I do not want to misread - the Yi or him and realise after a year or so that I was reading it all wrong all along I have done that once before.

Help

Thanks,
Lilo <3

 

[moss elk]

hi,

I'll take a shot, others are welcomed.

We had a conversation about the reverse of this reading. (42.2.5(41))
In that reading what seemed to be an Increase, was Decreased.
(something given to me, had to be given up.)

Let us reverse that meaning for your reading:
A Decrease, is Increased.
or
You give, but actually get in return.

Line 2 says to avoid decrease.
Line 5 says someone gives you something.

So, I wouldn't say goodbye just yet.

 

[lilo]

Thanks Moss Elk,
Yes.. does seem like that to me too. I'll give it some more time..
Though will stay detached as much as I can, just in case...

<3