Is he into me and how should a girl act when she likes the guy ALOT?

[apple]

I've been going on dates with lots of guys (JUST dinner or movies, I'm not promiscuous) but none of these guys have been what I was looking for. It made me feel really down.

Finally I have met someone that I really like! I poked him on Facebook because his profile picture made me laugh and we have some shared friends but he and I never met. I was surprised that he wrote me back but even more surprised when we started chatting because we have some really unique things in common. Like we both study buddhism, like the same things..and there's just this feeling of serendipity about it.

So we write each other but at first he teased me that he didn't think I was real because a girl interested in the same things as him, who he thinks is pretty and so on..he said, "are you sure you're real? " but now he knows I am.

I really like him but feel in unknown territory because usually it's the guys that approach me.

What do I do? How should I act?

I asked the oracle and got the following:

Is David interested in me?

53.2.4.5 leading to 50

Gradual Progress the Maiden is given in Marriage
Leading to 50 The Cauldron

Six in the second place means:
The wild goose gradually draws near the cliff.
Eating and drinking in peace and concord.
Good fortune
Six in the fourth place means:
The wild goose gradually draws near the tree.
Perhaps it will find a flat branch. No blame.
Nine in the fifth place means:
The wild goose gradually draws near the summit.
For three years the woman has no child.
In the end nothing can hinder her.
Good fortune.

How should I behave to make him even more interested in me romantically?

52.1 Keeping Still leading to 22 Grace

Six at the beginning means:
Keeping his toes still.
No blame.
Continued perseverance furthers


If I "keep my toes still", stopping now and letting HIM make the first moves, what will be our potential romantically?

Hex 19 unchanging

So how should I act? Should I maybe not respond to his mails too soon? He takes longer to respond to my mails. Also, I am going to his city at Christmas and would love to meet him. Should I ask him directly or just mention that I will be there and let him ask me to meet (if he wants to).

I'm happy that I met a guy that I REALLY like and don't want to mess it up.

 

[maurey]

an amateur opinion

There are many more here on this site with more experience but to me it seems like you are getting some very clear guidance. First of all, it seems to be patient is the main advice. Gradual development is very hard when we are wanting to plunge ahead into romantic bliss but if we can "keep still" and let him come to you, then the rewards will be great. My suggestion would be to very casually mention that you are going to be in his city and see what happens. I might even be very clear as to WHY I was going to be there so there wouldn't be any possibility of David feeling that he's being stalked (not that he would of course but just sticking with the theme of gradual development)...

Good luck-- to me it sounds very positive if you can slow down! xx

 

[willowfox]

Is David interested in me? 53.2.4.5 leading to 50

Yes, he is, the lines say that at first he wasn't too sure but now he feels at ease talking with you, and it appears that he is trying quietly to get even more involved with you, so after so many disappointments you can now expect success in the romance department.

How should I behave to make him even more interested in me romantically?

52.1 Keeping Still leading to 22 Grace

Your relationship is just starting, so keep still and think because at the moment your own desires are blurring your vision.

Hex 19 unchanging suggests that things will indeed blossom nicely between you, so the potential is there.

 

[apple]

thank you guys for your help!

Well even though it's really hard to be patient I am managing to cool my jets

Everytime he writes to me he ask me a question at the end of the mail. He ask me alot about myself but doesn't tell me too much about himself.

So yesterday when I replied to him I just thanked him for his kind compliments but I didn't ask him a question. I wanted to see what he would do.

It was soooo hard sitting through the day, constantly checking my messages,..hoping that he would write (I'm silly..yes I know!)

I couldn't take it anymore so instead of writing him I just asked the IChing

Will David write to me tonight?

first I asked this afternoon and I got
hex 54.2 saying the one eyed man can see, perserverance furthers and leading to 51.
does this mean that there are things I can't yet know?

I asked one more time this evening , the same question: Will David write to me tonight?

and i got:

17.1 leading to 45

Is there some other advice or wisdom here that I am missing?

 

[apple]

omg! he just got on Facebook and wrote in his status: "David is going to make a move"

I errr. immediately asked the oracle: Did what David wrote have anything to do with me?"

and it said:

Hex 54.1.2.4 leading to Hex 2

oh no! Is that bad?

The marrying maiden as a concubine.
A lame man who is able to tread.
Undertakings bring good fortune.

Nine in the second place means:
A one-eyed man who is able to see.
The perseverance of a solitary man furthers.

Nine in the fourth place means:
The marrying maiden draws out the allotted time.
A late marriage comes in due course.

 

[willowfox]

Yes, it appears that it does, so hang in there while he gets his bike in gear.