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Icestorm27

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Hello! I have discovered I Ching a few weeks ago while listening to one of Alan Watts’ lectures where he mentioned about the “Book of changes”. Since I was looking for something to resonate with me for a long time (I have tried Tarot for instance, but didn’t resonate) I thought: let’s try this one.
And indeed, it does resonate and every time I come across a difficult situation, I ask for guidance.
So I’ve met this person in November. We’ve been seeing each other on and off, depending on her time. And she hasn’t given me clear answers. As in, yes she would like to be with me, but doesn’t make clear steps towards that. She’s testing the waters. She knows I want to have a relationship with her....
Anyway, I don’t want to get into too many details. My point is, I cannot understand exactly the reading. 33.5 to 53.
Do I have to tell her and ask clear answers about what she wants from me or not? 33 means retreat, therefore I should be silent and continue on with perusing her, even though it’s been going on for months already? I have looked up on other interpretations and this might also mean to just go for it?...
I don’t know, I am kinda lost.
Thank you for your time!
 

rosada

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33.5 changes to 56.
If that is the reading you got then the I Ching is telling you it’s time to move on.

I see this as saying you’ve already put enough time into this courtship so sure, tell her how you feel and what you’re looking for. If she’s not interested by now it’s best you know so you can bow out gracefully.
 
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Sorry, but it's unclear whether you cast 33.5 to 56 or 33.4 to 53.
Either way, I don't see this as an all or nothing, go for it or give up and move on answer.
I think you're advised to just play it more aloof. She knows you're interested. Make yourself slightly less available perhaps. Who knows, maybe giving the subtle impression that you're losing interest would force her hand.

Inauspicious for telling her everything, I'd say.

Good luck
Donna,
 

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Checking in to see if you've clarified which line was cast. Not yet. Hmm, well, 33.4 is a little bit different and asks whether you can comfortably pull off playing it more aloof. If you're a more dominant personality, someone who likes to have the upper hand in a relationship, or if you're "the little guy" who always gets sand kicked in his face by those jerks in the movies :)
If you're the little guy, you gotta do what you gotta do, keep your actions aligned with who you are, and maybe that means spillng the beans. Even if she's not going to like it or respond in the way that you want.
That is, if you cast 33.4

If you cast 33.5, then I think the advice is playing it more aloof.
 

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