Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
When I was about to leave he asked me to stay and he kissed me. We started talking, though and then he dropped me the bomb: He really likes being around me, I inspire him, we make eachother laugh and he feels great being with me, but he can't offer me more at the time, because after his last break up about a year ago he now wanted to focus on himself and his projects and he just couldn't bring himself to give me more. I thanked him for his honesty and told him that even though this was something that was just staritng, i didn't want to get myself caught in a situation with a person who starts with the premise of "not wanting" to go beyond a sorta friends with benefits situation, because that is not what I was looking for and I didn't want to "have" to discard the possibility of us being more in the future
This did affect me though and I have been obviously sad (I was very happy around him, loved to talk to him as well, find him interesting and smart, sensitive, etc) , so I asked the Yi for guidance. I asked for a general reflection on what was going on with me and him, and I got 18.1.4 to 14
other laugh and he feels great being with me, but he can't offer me more at the time, because after his last break up about a year ago he now wanted to focus on himself and his projects and he just couldn't bring himself to give me more
Oh my, why did he ever.... According to him, he is in exploration mode on every aspect of his life. He did say that after hearing what I said he felt selfish and that he realized that he needed to be more careful because he realized he didn't consider how I could feel about what he actually wanted or how it could affect me, and that I made it clear to him now that I wasn't that kind of woman. But yes, dude had more lines than the London Underground. I do think that he believes all of them though...oh dear dear.... in that case why did he bother starting something with you ?
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).