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will exboyfriend leave his girlfriend for me, know that he saw me again
Just want to make sure if I should even fathom the idea he might come back to me or should I move on?

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58. Tui / The Joyous, Lake


JOYFUL / COMPLACENT / MARSH
Tui intimates that under its conditions there will be progress and attainment. But it will be advantageous to be firm and correct.

GREAT SYMBOLISM
Two symbols representing the waters of a marsh, one over the other, form Tui. The superior man, in accordance with this, encourages the conversation of friends and the stimulus of their common practice.

THE LINES


•The first line, undivided, shows the pleasure of inward harmony. There will be good fortune.
•The fourth line, undivided, shows its subject deliberating about what to seek his pleasure in, and not at rest. He borders on what would be injurious, but there will be cause for joy.
•The fifth line, undivided, shows its subject trusting in one who would injure him. The situation is perilous.
KING WEN'S EXPLANATION OF THE HEXAGRAM
Tui has the meaning of pleased satisfaction. We have the strong lines in the center, and the weak lines on the outer edge of the two trigrams, indicating that in pleasure what is most advantageous is the maintenance of firm correctness. Through this there will be found an accordance with the will of heaven, and a correspondence with the feelings of men.

When such pleasure goes before the people, and leads them on, they forget their toils; when it animates them in encountering difficulties, they forget the risk of death. How great is the power of this pleased satisfaction, stimulating in such a way the people.

DUKE OF CHOU'S EXPLANATION OF THE LINES


•The good fortune attached to the pleasure of inward harmony arises from there being nothing in the conduct of the subject of the line to awaken doubt.
•The joy in connection with the subject of the fourth line, undivided, is due to the happiness which he will produce.
•He trusts in one who would injure him: his place is that which is correct and appropriate.
UPPER TRIGRAM: Tui
CONCEPT: Joyful, Marsh, Complacent
QUALITIES: Happy, Gossipy, Slanderous, Joy, Critical, Quarrelsome Laughing, Smiling, Harmonious, Pleasurable, Contentment, Low Lying Water, Marsh, Soft, Sorceress
FAMILY: Youngest Daughter
PART OF THE BODY: Mouth/Tongue
SEASON: Fall

LOWER TRIGRAM: Tui
CONCEPT: Joyful, Marsh, Complacent
QUALITIES: Happy, Gossipy, Slanderous, Joy, Critical, Quarrelsome Laughing, Smiling, Harmonious, Pleasurable, Contentment, Low Lying Water, Marsh, Soft, Sorceress
FAMILY: Youngest Daughter
PART OF THE BODY: Mouth/Tongue
SEASON: Fall



7. Shih / The Army


THE ARMY / THE HOST OF THE MULTITUDE
Shih indicates how, in the case which it supposes, with firmness and correctness, and a leader of age and experience there will be good fortune and no error.

THE GREAT SYMBOLISM
The trigram representing the earth and in the midst of it that representing water, form Shih. The superior man, in accordance with this, nourishes and educates the people, and collects from among them the multitudes of the host.

KING WEN'S EXPLANATION OF THE HEXAGRAM
The name Shih describes the multitude of the host. The firmness and correctness which the hexagram indicates refer to more correctness of aim. When the mover is able to use the multitude with such correctness, he may attain to the royal sway.

There is the symbol of strength in the centre of the trigram below, and it is responded to by its proper correlate above. The action gives rise to perils, but it is in accordance with the best sentiments of men. Its mover may by such action distress all the country, but the people will follow him: there will be good fortune, and what error should there be?

UPPER TRIGRAM: K'un
CONCEPT: Docility/Submissive/Earth
QUALITIES: Passive, Earth, Female, Receptive, Weak, Responsive, Yielding, Devoted, Flexible, Soft, Calm, Wife, Patient, Moderate, Empty, Cowardly, Maternal, Docile, Capaciousness, Submissiveness, Subordination, Compliant, Caldron, Obscure, Sustaining Power
FAMILY: Mother
PART OF THE BODY: Stomach
SEASON: Late Summer, Early Autumn

LOWER TRIGRAM: K'an
CONCEPT: Peril/Difficulty/Dangerous
QUALITIES: Peril, Difficulty, Moon, Enveloping, Dangerous, Cunning, Deceitful, Aimless, Clever, Wise, Sad, Harmless, Melancholy, Depressed, Rain, Disturbing, Hidden, Concealed, Anxiety, Distress of the Mind, Abysmal
FAMILY: Second Son
PART OF THE BODY: Ears
SEASON: Winter




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58.1.4.5 >7

Hexagram 58: The Joyous: Interdependent Lakes, Exchange

Lakes resting on one another.

Line 1: Inward harmony. This joyous exchange can only happen when one is inwardly independent.
Line 4: Emotional I ching says "Cheap stimulation cannot satisfy." Other versions talk about bordering on what is injurious, but no blame.
Line 5: Exchange should not mean exposing oneself to one who may harm one.

The relating H7 is about getting all in proper order.
The I Ching, rather than answering about if he will leave his girlfriend for you, is advising you to get yourself in order, and thus gain a true influence over him.

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Hi Foxx777

So this means that there is potential that he will come back if I get myself in order, or should I just give up, I feel sometimes there is potiential then other times I say forget it. not sure if he is in real love with his girlfriend, jsut shocked that he has one, when he told me he didn;t want a relationship or maybe she is just something not really serious.

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Hi Foxx777

So this means that there is potential that he will come back if I get myself in order, or should I just give up, I feel sometimes there is potiential then other times I say forget it. not sure if he is in real love with his girlfriend, jsut shocked that he has one, when he told me he didn;t want a relationship or maybe she is just something not really serious.

chrissy
Well, look at it this way: Getting yourself in order is good either way. It gives you the potential to influence him, to show him you are better for him than her (whether it is serious or not). This may bring him back to you. Worst case scenario: He still resists. Well, then you will be in good order for someone else!:rofl:
 
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